My ancestors were Swiss immigrants to Wisconsin in the 1920’s. I’m as white as you can get. My 80 year old grandparents love my black girlfriend. But I get dirty looks and hushed whispers at her all black family gatherings. I always worry that black people will somehow see me as a racist, even when my black girlfriend is at my side holding my hand. I’m tired of feeling guilty for something neither me nor my family were involved with.