During my divorce there was a test I took with many words (3 pages of words) and I had to narrow those words down to 4 words in short timed period. It turned out that these words meant a lot to me and are a high priority to me. – – Belonging, Trust, Honesty, and Forgiveness. I learned that I was missing ALL of them and that I needed focused on regaining them back in my life so I could move on. Belonging – gives me the feeling of being included, desired, needed, wanted, and appreciated!