My fiance is black. My son is mixed. At THREE years old my son has already encountered racism. Every time my fiance walks out of the house, I worry. When he gets angry at someone or something in public, I get scared and try my hardest to calm him down – NOT because of what he is going to do, but how others will see him. I know that all they will see is another angry black man, and I know that most of the time, any situation that starts with people that thinks that way never ends well.