Orange County, CA
Assuming “equal-opportunity” and “ass-kicker” are each one word.
Listen, we can all cry victim for one reason or another. If you want to be happy, you have to take ownership of your experience. If you need some perspective, go to a children’s cancer ward or go to a repressed and/or poverty-stricken 3rd-world country and try to find some. There’s only one race. It’s called human.