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Always searching for where I belong

Tyler Brown,
Ellenwood, GA

I chose the phrase “Always searching for where I belong” because it encapsulates my journey as a young black female who grew up in predominantly white environments. Throughout my childhood, I often felt out of place, struggling to find my identity because of different cultural influences. My hair, skin color, and even culture were constantly put on a critical pedestal. Up until middle school; I attended a predominately white charter school; and due to this environment, I spent my early years with many negative thoughts and feelings about myself. During middle and high school, I had the fortune of, not only, being around people who looked like me, but individuals from other cultures and backgrounds, Being exposed to various cultures, I’ve come to appreciate mine and others, however, I still struggled with a few of the same feelings that stemmed from my early school years. Attending an HBCU has been transformative, allowing me to connect more deeply with my culture and the experiences of others who share similar backgrounds. This ongoing search for belonging and self-acceptance emphasizes the significance of celebrating our unique identities in a world where racial and cultural differences can often create feelings of isolation.

Between worlds; belonging fades, identity searches.

Jake Dinh,
Lake Forest, CA

Being Vietnamese but born in the US created a feeling of disconnection for me neither fully connected to Vietnamese heritage nor entirely embraced by mainstream American culture.This highlights a struggle to find belonging and identity in a space between two worlds. It reflects the complexities in my life of cultural duality and the search for myself in a multicultural society.

Not Black Enough, Not White Enough

Heleen Moyer,
Troy, PA

Growing up, being a mixed girl, -also with a Hispanic father that was never around- , I never felt like I fit into a group. I was always too dark skinned to feel like I related to my white friends. But, I was too light skinned to feel like I fit in with my black friends. Being Hispanic felt like I had another shot at feeling some kind of belonging, I quickly realized how shameful it was to that group that I didn’t speak Spanish. Being a young girl it was incredibly difficult to feel like I belonged somewhere, or that people related to my issues. & it has definitely left a vacant space in me that still isn’t sure what category I really belong too. I know now as an adult it shouldn’t matter much, but it feels like it carries a much heavier weight now in light of social justice issues.

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