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But what about your blue eyes?

Dilyn Grasp,
Boring, OR.

I am a white woman from a small town in Oregon (look it up, it’s a real place). My boyfriend is a first generation American. His parents are from China and Taiwan. When we started dating two years ago (when I was 20 and old enough to make my own decisions), plenty of people in my hometown gave their concern: “Your children will be mixed.” “Your blue eyes will not be passed on!” “Your children won’t get that strawberry blonde hair, you know.” “You’re lucky he is so tall!” “You know, he is kind of attractive… for an Asian.”

Is it so concerning that my future children will look like my boyfriend simply because he is another race? I, for one, am looking forward to the day my little one looks up at me with her daddy’s brown eyes and dark hair. Because it isn’t about the color of her or her daddy’s skin/hair/eyes but about the deep love I know we will all have for each other. I am thankful for his brown eyes so full of love, despite the micro-aggressions and subtle discrimination he has faced.

We are all from planet Earth.

Maggie Trias,
Boulder, CO.

I am half Puerto Rican, but I look white, and lost contact with my Puerto Rican family a long time ago. Instead of feeling empty like I’m missing half of myself, I have learned to cherish my connections with people from all over the globe, and have let go of my need to have roots in some exotic location. I may be just a “boring old white girl” but I am part of the entire human race, and that is pretty amazing!

What’s Wrong With Asians in the Library?

Samie
Hays, KS

I work at a university library. Our university is lucky enough to have students from all over the world. We are not so blessed in the fact that we are a rather conservative town. One comment that I hear over and over is “those Asians are ALWAYS in the library!”- as if that’s a bad thing! More students should lean from these students and spend more time in the library as opposed to the bars that populate the area. Also- if I lived on campus- as most of them do- and didn’t work in the library I would spend most of my time there- this is a boring town!

Whiteness: shameful, boring. Black is beautiful

Sylvia Kronstadt
Salt Lake City, UT

For 60 years, I have wished I were black — or at least “colored.” This may seem outrageous to those who suffer every day from racism, but I long for the vibrancy, authenticity, dignity, style, spontaneity, sass, smarts, sexiness, depth, grace, resiliency and honorable history that I see in black people as a whole. I am not proud of my race. I am proud of the black race.

Where’s the box for cultural diversity?

Isabelle Strauss
McLean, VA

I feel boring when I fill out race and ethnicity on a form – I’m white, nuff said. Or maybe not. My father’s family is of Anglo-German descent, fairly common in the US, but my mother came to the US as an immigrant. Growing up, I spoke a different language at home, I had “weird” food in my lunch box, and my mom and I voted for president for the first time together because she became a US citizen around the time I turned 18. But because I’m white, I feel that my mother’s culture is not given the value it deserves. I’m not white and Hispanic, I’m not white and (insert racial diversity here) and so no one thinks I represent a different culture. Maybe this is generational – but I think race is not what’s important in distinguishing individuals and communities.

To me, race is just science; whether your body produces more or less melanin based on evolution to the heat or cold or sun or wind, etc, over hundreds of thousands of years. But culture is what makes us who we are. Culture gives us the language we speak, the food we like, what music we listen to, which god we pray to, and many of our values (the list can go on and on). We now have lots of boxes for racial diversity, but where’s the box for my cultural diversity?

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