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You’re Guamanian? You’re whiter than me!”

All my life, people have mistaken me for “races” that I am not: Mexican, Hawaiian, Filipino, Indian, Brazilian. I was always flattered because I thought this meant I looked exotic and “different,” I wanted to look different. I didn’t want to look “haole,” our stolen Hawaiian word for “white.” That’s when I uncovered the implicit bias that I lived with all my life. I noticed the explicit bias that existed in my family. My aunt shunned my niece and nephew because they were half Black. She would refuse to give them money for Christmas because they were “as black as the ace of spades,” and that meant, to her, that they couldn’t be trusted with her money. That never made sense to me. What was even more puzzling was that she was so loving toward me and my son, yet she showed a palpable prejudice against my 9 and 5 year-old relatives. I learned later that this disdain against African-Americans was taught to her my her father who learned to be racist from his father. Racism is taught and handed down, and it is up to us to break the cycle. I will remember this and confront my inner feelings that tell me being “exotic” is better than “looking white.” Recognizing our bias is the first step.

Race is not real: The consequences of creating races are.

Race is not biologically real; it is a social construct; We are all, in fact, one race. According to the American Anthropological Association, a group of the most well-educated anthropologists in the country, “Today, scholars in many fields argue that “race” as it is understood in the United States of America was a social mechanism invented during the 18th century to refer to those populations brought together in colonial America: the English and other European settlers, the conquered Indian peoples, and those peoples of Africa brought in to provide slave labor.” This unfair and unfounded categorization of the human species was created by the human need to create a hierarchy among races. Therefore, racism created race. Evidence from anthropologists who analyzed genetics (e.g., DNA) indicates that, “Most physical variation, about 94%, lies within so-called racial groups. Conventional geographic “racial” groupings differ from one another only in about 6% of their genes.” This means that we are not “racially” different, after all. Throughout history whenever different groups have come into contact, they have interbred. The continued sharing of genetic materials has maintained all of humankind as a single species. Although race may not exist, the consequences of race as a social construct do exist.

We’re Created Equal; Act like it.

Wherever I may go, my sister and I are always questioned about our ethnicity, we apparently look Native or Brazilian or Indian. I don’t know if I should be offended or flattered. I hate when people think of all maids as Mexican or Latina, it’s just rude. No one should be put under a generalization by ignorant people who are most of the time just confused. This is what is aggravating me the most, being on the dividing line, I am Mexican and White, listening to both ends talk about the other in devastating ways. When some of my friends ask me if I speak Spanish I say, “Does it look like I do?” The fact being that I am tan and like some Mexican food, shouldn’t make me a stereotype. I used to think I was just American or white. But now I know I’m also all of these wonderful ethnicities too, German, Irish, Mexican. I guess this is what makes me… Me.

“Race” is not real, just hate is…

Race will never be proven biologically. Race is a label people put on each other to discriminate the other. There is no cell in the body that can prove race is genetic or biological. During World War II the ideology of “race” and “racism” reached to Germany and led to a man exterminating over 11 million people. This man was Adolf Hitler. He believed that these people were of an “Inferior races” (e.g., Jews, Gypsies, Africans, homosexuals, and so forth). According to the Institute for Human Genomics, we share 99% of the same DNA codes with each other! So why are people so cruel to others just because they look different? This study shows that we should be able to stop racism and discrimination globally with these statistics and studies. In conclusion “Race” will never be biologically real, but it is still there under our noses each day of our life. I hope that our next generation will not have to grow up knowing the tragic word, that is Race…

I’m Brazilian. Am I still white?

Kati,
Nottingham, MD.

I did not know what white privilege was before coming to the US. I definitely see how I have it easier here than people with different skin colors. But I will be honest. I have had a hard time being told all the time that I cannot understand hardship because of my skin color. Why do Americans insist on one-upping each other on the hardship scale? It’s like everyone wants to have the biggest victim star, so they can tell everyone else how to live. You don’t know someone’s history just by looking at them. You don’t know what they have or haven’t experienced. Whether you are white, black, brown, green, blue, red. . . you still don’t get to judge.

She aslo adds:
Does white always mean white privilege?
I am Brasilian by birth and very white skinned. This is an honest question. i want to understand if people on this site see every white person as being guilty in some way for the racism they have experienced in their life. But often i have felt discredited from participating in this conversation because of how I look. But I am not “white-american” and grew up without ever recognizing colors of skin till I moved to the US. Am i just as guilty? Should i be made to feel as though I am part of the system that mistreats minorities? Is not making a judgment on white skin the same as making a judgment on any other color? And more importantly, when a person has been treated unfairly for how they look, what color they are, or any other external factor, does that give them the right to do the same? I know it’s complicated. I realize that so much of this behavior is just human. We all judge one another, and we all find it hard to forgive injustices. But maybe because I grew up outside of this particular set of prejudices, I see the tendency of the victim to adopt the very air of superiority that caused his or her pain in the first place. And while i don’t blame them, I do wonder if humans will ever be able to move forward, or if the pendulum must always swing

Hola? Ciao? Non? Where you from?

Jessica Aubrey
France

I just moved to Paris, France from the United States. My mother is Brazilian but my dad is a blonde haired, blue-eyed American. I have brown hair and eyes, but I never thought I looked all that Brazilian in comparison to my family– but now that I live abroad, I’ve realized that apparently many people find my look enigmatic. I have only lived here for 3 months, but at least once every 2 weeks there is someone so curious about trying to figure out my ethnicity that they actually approach me and ask. It’s been the strangest but most fun experience of my life abroad.

“You’re Brazilian? You don’t look it!”

Daphne de Souza Lima Sorensen,
Oneonta, NY.

I’m a white woman with a perfect American accent. I have a university degree, a husband and a 3 year old daughter. By all accounts, I am a “typical” middle-class woman. Except that I am not American and even though I have lived in the USA on and off for years, I am decidedly and emphatically Brazilian. When Americans meet me and ask me where I am from, they invariably do a double-take when they hear “Rio de Janeiro” instead of Connecticut or even California, I can’t tell you how many times people then utter my six words, or a variation thereof: “You mean you’re not American?” or, “But you sound like an American.” When people say the “you don’t look Brazilian” line, I usually ask, “What do Brazilians look like?” to which some people have actually said, “Well, darker….” In fact, that was the reaction of my husband’s (then boyfriend) best friend when he first saw a photo of me. “She’s Brazilian? I thought she’d be darker!” Whereas some people probably want to be less “ethnic” sometimes, I struggle with trying to stick out and show off my nationality….

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