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Are you the maintenance guy

Mr. Jones,
Charleston, SC.

New neighbors moved in about 6 months ago. 1st introduction while I was sweeping driveway “are you the maintenance guy”. I have a vacation home in a “upscale neighborhood” just 30 houses and only african american for 5 years. Neighborhood HOA even hired local police to do daily drive-thrus as well. I’ve really have a hard time there especially since it being the south. I have a home in Baltimore as well next to JHU University. While Baltimore is much more accepting to diversity – there is a very different world. I would hate to see the neighborhood reaction if I had a family reunion function. Listening to NPR and found out about your program.

I am buying what you’re selling.

Vicki DiPaolo,
Charleston, SC.

It is the basic instinct of survival that causes us to evaluate our environment and decide if what we see is helpful, benign, or dangerous. We don’t always get it right because ingrained thoughts are always right in today’s world. We began in communities where we all looked the same. If we came into contact with someone who looked different it usually meant one group would be taking what the other had and our very survival depended on keeping “ours”. Today’s world, including the last few hundred years, is totally different. World exploration has mixed cultures and in the beginning human rights were unheard of, it just wasn’t part of the picture. It was okay for one group to take others as slaves. It was okay to treat someone that wasn’t your class, race, or sex as subhuman. And the farther away from your mirror image the less human that individual was to you.
Leap into the second half of the 20th century. I wish that the love-in of the 60’s and 70’s where to bear fruit, and it has to some degree. We had varying success with race and sex issues. We cannot forget what others suffered to give us in law what we have now. It may not be in the real living world that we experience those rights but in written law the truth is spoken to declare what is morally right.
But the 1980’s gave birth to a badseed to counteract the fruits of the morally just. It began with a movie quote, “Greed is good.” It grew when people saw their homes not as a home but as something that could be bought and sold within months to get a bigger and bigger castle whether their family needed it or not. Soon the greed bug infiltrated our way of life. You didn’t work hard to get ahead, you worked “smart” in the free market of economy. Truth and the handshake deal were out, getting “yours” at any cost was smart. If you didn’t take advantage regardless of morals or law you were a chump. The rise of the Superstar who had no talent had arrived. Talent was out, fame was in.
White collar crime, street crime, crime against elderly and children. All at first shocked, then became commonplace. And who do we blame? Why going back to our most basic instinct of survival, we blame those most unlike ourselves. The rich blame the poor and middleclass who are lazy and steal everything they can get their hands on. The poor blame the middleclass who they can see firsthand, enjoying their homes, cars, and all the fun things a credit card can buy. And the middleclass blame the poor who they can see and will attack and kill the middleclass group to take their belongings. Middleclass blacks, whites, Mexican, and Asians will band together as a group to protect their community. The same is true for the rich and the poor. When the economic group becomes unstable the ethnic difference will become more important. And what of the elderly? Unless the noble virtues return and life’s knowledge becomes an access I feel that the greed on which our society is based on will make the elderly seen as taking up more than they give. Since no one sees their own time will come, social security and any safety net for the aged will be reduced and the nursing home will be a true nightmare.

What does this all have to do with Race? And what does “I’m buying what you’re selling.” mean? It’s that when we allow greed to rule our behavior, that we use intimidation to get what we want we have to be prepared for the doublesword of our behavior. I am a nurse. I care for people who for the most part have little financial strength. I see many spectrums of how people deal with their economic status. My favorite patients, of course, are pleasant, say please and thank you, and don’t blame me for being sick. In turn I respond to their needs as quickly as I can, say please and thank you, and don’t blame them for having to work to support myself and family. The worst patient is intimidating, sometimes physically, but mostly verbally or in by implying a financial threat of job loss or suing. Most people fall in the middle of these too groups, unfortunately, closer to the intimidating.

They say that all the world is a stage and we are all actors. Then your costume is what you choose to presentyourself. Yes, this is your clothing. But your presence, your mannerisms say much more. Unfortunately, greed has inspired the popularity of the person who takes whether they deserve or not. The ability to lash out physically gains respect. Images are shown on Facebook, Twitter, etc. boasting fights or outright assaults. A gaudy amount of riches is displayed by every level of society. And all of this is seen as normal. It makes me sad. And hopeless. Because all of this behavior is happening in the day to day lives of people who don’t watch PBS. And how many people will take the time to read what I’ve written in the age of Twitter? Still, I’ve written down what I believe is the beginning of an idea. And isn’t it better than not at all.

Be actively anti-racist, not passively non-racist

Landon Ghast,
Charleston, IL

An open letter to white people:

Being passively or “personally not (a) racist” and being aware of one’s whiteness/privilege is necessary but not sufficient for a white person to enact anti-racist practices and politics, to make those acts what Bell Hooks calls “habits of being” (i.e., habits of both body and mind), and to become (within the politics of identity) “an” anti-racist: white people as a group are far from realizing our place in anti-racist movements, particularly the “hashtag activism” of the #BlackLivesMatter movement in the US (which of course intersects with the #MeToo, #TransLivesMatter, and #BlackTransLivesMatter movements).

White people cannot stop at recognizing their privileges and investments in white supremacy: they must transform their racial self-awareness (mindfulness of their whiteness) into anti-racist acts, practices, and politics, habits of being (with & towards others in the world) — including mindfulness and embodiment — structures of feeling, and forms of family, community, and humanity. Indeed, “mindfulness of whiteness” includes becoming aware of how whiteness within white supremacy is both privileged & empowered over Blackness & embodied & “epidermalized” as essentially “lighter-than-light-skinned”, that is, white-skinned. on the other hand, of course, Blackness becomes not only simultaneously hyper- & dis-embodied as essentially non-essential — (in)dispensable & interchangeable as laboring bodies (read “labor” in any & all of its senses & tenses: work/occupation; childbirth; birthmothers & middle-wives for the world, which has always been born through the wombs & upon the backs of Black & brown & indigenous &etc. people, who have been & are laboring under white supremacy; labor for love because Black people deserve to be loved & valued; belaboring because we need to speak it until it shapes our patterns of behavior &or habits of being: Black Lives (& Voices) Matter; indentured & “involuntary servitude”; penal/colony, plantation/incarceration, & carceral/corporeal labor; the laboring of the slaving vessels that bore the bodies of slaves; even the labor of death that Black people bore & bear disproportionately compared to white people: COVID-19, HIV/AIDS, & the use by police of excessive & often fatal force/violence against (often unarmed, non-violent, & non-resisting) Black people are only the most immediate examples of the disproportionate rates of Black morbidity, disability, & mortality upon which white people can capitalize, surplus & supplement to the nation, etc. — but also racialized, epidermalized, &or melanicized as “light” or “dark” skinned: one can actually think racism as a form of melanism (with colorism being another binary form).

according to melanism, humans can be categorized by “skin-color”, which is binarized between “light” & “dark-skinned”: skinned flesh of Black & blackened & disembodied bodies; skin-color as racialized capital; skin as signifying under-the-skin: (lack of) interiority, subjectivity, self-reflectivity, intelligence, sentience, etc.; skin as signifying on & between human & nonhuman animal; skin as signifying an investiture in systems of oppression even when they condition pain & suffering for ourselves & others (i.e., to have skin in the game); to skin or take another’s money (&or other forms of capital); skin as the eroticized & fetishized, feared & desired, signified & signifier, subject & abject, semi-permeable membrane separating the “inside” from the “outside” of the body; the thick skin Black people have been conditioned to adopt & made habitual to survive white supremacy; the thin skin through which white people have been privileged & empowered (& POC marginalized & silenced); skins as in drums & their heads & the sounds & rhythms & music & messages they make & speak & call; &etc.

However, within white supremacy, “whiteness” & “Blackness” remain the superordinate & “light” & “dark-skinned” the subordinate binary between the pair, such that “non-whiteness” becomes synonymous for “not-too-much” but still “all-too-much” melanin. anytime anyone “measures” &or “compares” the “amount” of melanin “in” a person’s skin according to the standards of the white & whitened body, that is melanism.

Furthermore, white-supremacist plantation economies & pseudosciences have very often employed melanin as genotypic & phenotypic, medical, anatomical, & physiological, sexological, & even neurological “evidence” of Black people’s “aberrations” from the normative formation of whiteness, as well as their inherent “hardiness” in mind & body, pain-insensitivity, biological & physiological capacity for work, hyper-sexuality, etc.

We cannot keep victimizing & traumatizing & killing Black and brown & indigenous & Latinx & other people of color. we must make a world in which Black lives & trans lives & Black trans lives & Black trans womxn’s lives &etc. matter.

we need comprehensive & holistic racial, economic, political, social, environmental, healthcare, educational, rehabilitative, &etc. justice.

In any situation in which a white person experience stress/defensiveness/angst/anger/rage/uncomfortableness from race(-ism), their immediate behavioral response &or impulse will usually be to avoid, defer, diffuse, deflect, deflate, & become defensive or even hostile because they are incentivized to remain uneducated about & uncommitted to anti-racist struggle.

White people assuming that racism does not traumatize, hurt, &/or wound Black people & brown people (& other people who are oppressed through their ethnic/racial difference(s) from the norm of whiteness) because they are “desensitized” &/or “habituated” to it in their daily lives is just as problematic as white people remaining emotionally, socially, politically, & mindfully immature & wrong in their being & (inter)acting with & toward POC. white fragility, of course, can be one example of white immaturity & naïveté & willful wrongfulness, as can white guilt, anger, ignorance, arrogance, greed, pride, rage, prejudice, privilege, power, supremacy, foolery & clownery, etc. the problem (of course) is not that white people experience these & other emotions & situations, which (of course) is unavoidable, but that they are vastly & daily in their lives unmindful of them (& themselves) & their (& their own) conditioning by & complicity in white power, privilege & supremacy, which (of course) plays out in both macro & micro registers/matrices.

thus, white affectivity (e.g., white fragility) can oftentimes perform, institute, & maintain white power, privilege & supremacy as a system of oppression that has been & is & will have been conditioned & enacted ethno-racially, historically, socially, culturally, capitalistically, patriarchally, cis- & het-centrically, nationalistically, terroristically, puritanically, religiously, linguistically, (pseudo-)scientifically, medically, anatomically, sociologically, philosophically, educationally, psychically, physically, bodily, visually, orally, sexually, textually, tactilely, etc.

one last PSA for all white people: STOP THE INCARCERATION, CIRCULATION, ECONOMIC EXPLOITATION, CONSUMPTION, DEHUMANIZATION, & DISEMBODIMENT & INTER(N)MENT OF BLACK BODIES, BOTH ALIVE & DEAD.

Of course, the fact that white people can capitalize upon & fetishize Black death & dead Black bodies is a testament to the ubiquity & intersectionality of anti-Black racism with/in US capitalism.

One final last PSA for all white people: POC DO NOT NEED YOUR TEARS, YOUR GRIEF, OR YOUR GUILT: THEY NEED YOUR ADVOCACY, YOUR ACTIVISM, YOUR MIND & BODY & SOUL & WHOLEHEARTED COMMITMENT TO ANTI-RACIST MOVEMENT.

Black life is not valued.

Patricia Jones
Charleston, SC

My husband and I are the parents of an 18-year-old son who just graduated from high school. As we raised him to this point, we were always concerned about his emotional, mental, and physical well-being. Our goal was to get him through high school and his teenage years without ever seeing what jail looks like. Thankfully and prayerfully, we have managed to do this. However, we have had the talk with him about how he should carry himself as an African American male in these United States. For example, whenever you’re stopped by a police officer, keep your hands on the steering wheel in the “2 o’clock” position. Don’t run in public spaces that might draw attention to you. Don’t wear a hoodie while when you go on your morning walk (he walks for exercise and he is trying to get into the Air Force, so he has to get his weight down). When you step on an elevator, don’t put your hands in your pockets-keep them visible. The list goes on and on. The same thing about the Trayvon Martin murder is this: only two people know what happened on that night, and unfortunately, one of them cannot speak. I have had some of my white friends say, “well, the facts are the facts. You should not look at this through emotion.” Well, how should black parents, black young men, black children, view this? Trayvon Martin had every right to be in that neighborhood on Feb. 26, 2012, because he was visiting with his father, who lives in that gated community. Why was he suspicious in George Zimmerman’s eyes? Why did George Zimmerman disobey the 9-1-1 operator’s directive of “stay in your car, do not follow him.” Why, because he knew he had a gun, and if all else failed, he could defend himself. When did it become a crime to walk to the store to get a snack? When? Florida’s judicial system is FLAWED, and unfortunately, this situation had to happen in order to force us, this country, to face the ugly truth: Racism is not dead. White folk are still terrified of Black folk. Society still insists on de-humanizing Black folk, and this is always going to be a problem. We need to have a discussion about race, but people have to be willing to talk without fear and anger. What I’ve learned from the state of Florida is this: we don’t value children, young people, and Blacks. Look at the Casey Anthony case. I was outraged by the fact that the judicial system did not convict her. Any good mother knows about the well-being of their child. A whole child has been murdered and no one is held accountable? Florida’s system is flawed, flawed, FLAWED.

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