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“I am proud, always will be.”

Mariah A. Humphrey,
Madison, AL

In my life, I’ve been a victim of racism but that never made me hate myself, my color, or my culture. I love my people and everything that we do from our food to the way we dress. But I know that’s not the case for everyone. Some people have experienced so much trauma that it creates hate for the thing they were hated for… Trying to find something to blame for their suffering. They feel as if they have to change themselves to not be “ghetto” or “ratchet”. That’s how hatred gets passed down from generation to generation. But, I will always love and eventually teach my children to love their color and embrace their heritage.

Look Asian but culturally I wasn’t

Allison,
Aurora, CO

I grew up in a very Americanized community although my family was very cultural. All my friends in school were white leaving me to be not only the non white person but the only Asian person in the group. My clothing and appearance drastically changed along with the lunch I brought to school. I would bring rice and some type of protein whether it’s chicken, fish or beef in a container. It had a stronger scent than anyone’s homemade lunch at the table, ended up refusing to feed my body due to the embarrassment I had. I thought that if I assimilated by bringing “normal” lunches and by hiding my identity, I would fit in and not be judged for who I was. I was wrong in many different aspects. I realized that my experiences as an “in-betweener” have their benefits and made me who I am today.

Be Present, Be Here, Be ME

Mechelle E. Salley,
Denver, CO

It’s important, especially during these times, to be your full authentic self. Whether that is wearing your big natural afro, wearing clothes that represents you/your culture and /or speaking out against injustices and oppressions in the community and in the workspaces. Being your full true self, being my Black self is appropriate, professional and important.

Wear a suit? He’s a “pimp”.

264598Chris Thompson,
Rochester, NY.

I have been an engineer for 13 years, and I notice that when I don the regular business casual attire, colleagues not directly in my department think I’m either in food or custodial services. Now I wear a tie daily, and the “compliment” I get is that I look like a pimp. Why can’t I look like an engineer? Or a businessman? I’ll even take lawyer. Why does a tie on me make me look like a sex trafficker, and how is that a compliment?

Polo, Khakis, Sperry’s, still a N*****!

Chaddirck G
Ann Arbor, MI
Understanding Race Project- University of Michigan

No matter how I dress, what I do, or say I am viewed this way on U of M’s campus, in the state of Michigan and outside of it. No matter what I do to lesson the fear of me being a Black and African American Man. It doesn’t matter because at the end of the day people fear me. Yes, I am a 6’0 ft, 265 lbs, Black man. But those are not reasons to fear me. If i wear a hoodie and baggie clothes I am feared, when I wear a polo, khakis and Sperry boat shoes I am still feared. So what is the point of even trying to conform to what popular culture deems as an acceptable appearance?

Oh sorry I am new here!

Anonymous,
Sacramento, CA.

I remember the time when we just moved here in the United States, we were called “beggars” by an old lady because of the way we dress. Coming from a country where lifestyle was just simple and plain affected our adjustment, and made it hard for us to adopt, especially the place we moved in was a huge city called New York.

Not black enough to be black

Christina Gibbs,
La Habra, CA.

Growing up in Orange County all of my life, I grew up around mostly White, Asian, and Mexican people. I was always the token black person in schools throughout life and in my friend groups. The only only times I was around more than a few black people was when I was around my family or when I was at church. Growing up, my experience at church wasn’t the best with the kids in children’s church or my Sunday school classes. The kids at my prominently black Baptist church in West Covina CA, (we had to go out of OC for church because there aren’t really black Baptist churches in Orange County), would constantly make fun of the way I talk and call me a white girl or tell me to “stop acting white” and would make fun of my clothing because I choose to wear beach-styled clothes rather than typical urban-street brands that the majority of blacks that I knew wore during that time. It was really hard for me and made me feel uncomfortable when I was around the kids at church which is suppose to be the place everyone should feel the most comfortable at and it is meant to be the least non-judgmental place because we are all there for one purpose. Sadly, this wasn’t the case growing up “not black enough to be black”

CBU HIS311

Race Doesn’t Exist, We Create It

Jenna DeBell,
LONGWOOD, FL.

Race doesn’t exist, we create it.

The concept of race has always baffled me. Judging a person’s character, intelligence and abilities merely by the color of their skin does not correlate in anyway. In fact, it seems ridiculous. Race is referred to as “groups of people who have differences and similarities in biological traits deemed by society to be socially significant, meaning that people treat other people differently because of them.” The phrase that resonates with me the most from this definition is “deemed by society.” Race, and all of the problems and tragedies that this word brings with it was all created by humans. It really is just a social construct, and without it, the world would truly be a much more harmonious place. However, after thinking about societal patterns, race as a social construct doesn’t seem so out of the ordinary. Think about it- human beings have always felt it necessary to pick sides or to establish groups. For example, when we go to school we quickly find our place in the social hierarchy by finding people like us where we “fit in”. We have chosen a side and didn’t even realize it. This pattern starts young and soon transforms into divisions in economic status, divisions in religion, divisions between the popular kids and the nerds, the jocks and the art students, the Knights and the Florida Gators. So many factors and predispositions are considered when looking at a person nowadays; the idea of judgment before even getting to know someone has become an almost standard way of life. It has become the norm to be on one side or the other. Breaking all boundaries, whether it be of race, religion, or political stance, and by realizing that we are all members of the human race- we all share a common skeleton, we all breathe in and out- is the only way we can come to terms with this unnecessary judgment. It is interesting to me that in times of tragedy, like the recent events in Las Vegas, people become colorblind and will even risk their own lives to save someone else, perhaps even a stranger. Why is this? Perhaps if we could figure this out things might begin to change. As said by my favorite band, “Under clothes, under skin underneath we’re all the same. For when you remove the tricky tricks, only skeleton bones remain.”

This Is Why Blacks Aren’t Respected

1950-VS-Today-Dress-Sagging-VS-SuitsJulian D.,
Las Cruces, NM.

Thug and Welfare culture is NOT what your ancestors and forefathers fought and died for! The Rev. M.L. King, Frederick Douglass, Harriet Tubman, etc. are all turning over in their graves over how much Black America has degenerated. Time to get it together, men and women. Don’t let their efforts become a total waste.

No, I do not own Ugg Boots

Hannah Stadnick,
Riverside, CA.

I believe that “white girls” get put into a very strong stereotype. Pumpkin spice lattes, Ugg boots, twitter, flannels, etc. are just a few of the common things that are stereotypical “white girl” attributes. If a girl shows up with any of these things they are almost automatically stereotyped into the “white girl” category. It is easy to do and nonetheless funny at times but every girl that shows up with some fluffy, comfy, and expensive boots should not be classified into being a stuck up, snobby person.

CBU HIS 311

Young blacks’ clothing can be disconcerting

30baggy600_12Robert Sowards,
Austin, TX.

I’m sure it’s simply a cultural thing. Even so, I find the baggy pants that show part of a young black male’s but crack, and “shorts” that go down to the ankles on the one hand but sag below the crack, to be a bit disconcerting, and even intimidating depending on the “where” and the “how many.” Also, the young female blacks will wear shorts so short that both buttocks show, and tops about three sizes too small. Maybe it’s my age that I don’t find any of this appealing in the least. That goes for young adults of any race.

Keep an eye on that group

Maura Seleski
Ann Arbor, MI
Understanding Race Project- University of Michigan

Summary:
These six words were commanded of me during my employment at a clothing store at my local mall almost daily. As I was folding clothes or working the cash register my manager would routinely call me over and whisper into my ear, “keep an eye of that group, over there,” pointing to a group of young black girls as they walked into the store.

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