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Cultural Gatekeepers Defile Black People’s Beauty

Deborah Sanders
New York, NY

Racism has become so deeply ingrained in our culture that we are often only able to recognize the most obvious aggressions. Even when we do recognize it, we often feel helpless to resist its powerful grip on our psyche. I think that much of the obstacles to achieving a post-racial society is the constant reinforcement of the ‘what is beautiful is good, what is beautiful is white paradigm’ being relentlessly forwarded by cultural gatekeepers such as the advertising industry and the entertainment industry.

This gatekeeper sector of society which chooses who goes on the covers of magazines, who gets the leading movie role as a symbol of beauty and who gets labeled sexy and so forth, has an overbearing and pervasive influence on the way we judge a person’s worth. According to them and the messages they espouse, first and foremost, a person and especially a woman must be beautiful to be worthy. Second, they narrowly define beauty in a way that excludes the natural features of black people. What follows, is an entire race of the people assumed to be bad by everyone, often including many of them, themselves.

I believe that the cultural gatekeepers violate the civil rights of a large segment of society by its damaging use of idealized images of beauty that influence how people value others. It impacts our ability to earn a living, to mate, attract friends and studies show that it even impacts the way teachers react to our children. When we as a society are bold enough to enforce civil rights laws and stop cultural gatekeepers from defining beauty, we will go along way towards eradicating racism.

I want to understand Cultural Appropriation.

Rae,
Canada.

An issue came up on Facebook, about Halloween costumes. People were talking about it being inappropriate for kids to dress as native people. I didn’t feel that it was so bad, that it was a way for kids to explore culture. I remember how often I used to pretend I was a native person, making forts out in the bush. If I had dressed that way for Halloween, it would have been out of interest, not out of any bad feelings towards the native people. I was naturally told how hurtful this attitude is, and that it is just WRONG, but I feel like it’s natural for cultures to blend and borrow from one another, and that’s how we become a new culture. Thoughts?

Look Asian but culturally I wasn’t

Allison,
Aurora, CO

I grew up in a very Americanized community although my family was very cultural. All my friends in school were white leaving me to be not only the non white person but the only Asian person in the group. My clothing and appearance drastically changed along with the lunch I brought to school. I would bring rice and some type of protein whether it’s chicken, fish or beef in a container. It had a stronger scent than anyone’s homemade lunch at the table, ended up refusing to feed my body due to the embarrassment I had. I thought that if I assimilated by bringing “normal” lunches and by hiding my identity, I would fit in and not be judged for who I was. I was wrong in many different aspects. I realized that my experiences as an “in-betweener” have their benefits and made me who I am today.

The world has a beautiful tapestry.

Mel,
Sharpsburg, GA

The world would be very boring if we all looked the same. I love the variety of colors we see in the world. I see the beauty in all races and all faces. I appreciate all the cultural differences and talents that each culture brings to the world table. Form their cultural food items to the wonderful diversity in musical. Could you imagine a world without Mozart or rap? You can but, it would not be as wonderful.

Who is your daughter’s father?

10132013-Hakone_753-2Itoko Richardson,
Daly City, CA.

I am Japanese and my husband is Black (he extremely dislikes to be called African-American). Our experience alone was interesting and filled with many racist, stereotype encounters and reactions. But my experience with my daughter is interesting. When I and my daughter are out, I can feel strangers’ wonder of who & what she is. My daughter is beautiful and I get that compliments time to time. But such a simple compliment is to ask real question for many people, “She is so pretty. What is she?”, “Is this your daughter? She is beautiful. What she is mixed with?”. So interestingly, it does not happen as often as to my husband & daughter when they are out. He said it is because he is Black. He means that people who ask our daughter’s source of race wants to know if she is mixed with Black. So I answered that I am married to an American. Sure enough, I was asked what kind of American I am married to.

Our experience in Japan is totally different. In the homogeneous society, every Japanese knows she is mixed when he/she sees her. So being mixed with Black or White isn’t something for them to concern about. It seems to me that people of Japan wanted to see if I embedded Japanese (Soul of Japanese) in her because Japanese blood runs in my daughter. They showed somewhat happiness when she ate natto (fermented soy bean), spoke Japanese, sang Japanese songs, used chop-sticks, believes in Buddhism, or celebrated our traditions. So I am working hard to engage in Japanese cultural traditions more than I ever cared to do. Partly I do not want to be looked as failed Japanese. But mostly, I want her to have more cards on her hand, cards of being Japanese.

Skyward Sprouting Despite American Cultural Miasma

Bomani Kyasa
Detroit, MI

We are Designed to Benefit from the Fruits of Our Own Labor. Anti-Life forces structure socio-economic conditions to to turn People and Specific Races into drones via a pernicious objectification process. Living is about pushing or obliterating the boundaries of the imagination; so that, that the Creative Human Spirit can Soar to new and glorious heights. Racism traps both the perpetrator and the victim, into an earthbound cage. To paraphrase MLK, the racist feeds his or /her false sense of superiority; while a false sense of inferiority is cruelly imposed on the victim. Both parties are being robbed of the Human Right to experience Life Authentically. Human Potential is needlessly wasted, in the Dance of Death called Racism.

I don’t want my white privilege.

Jason Struhs
Salt Lake City, UT

All safety and comfort that I currently enjoy has been at the expense of those who  have a different cultural heritage than I.  I do not want to benefit from this, but it is impossible not to.  Walking alone in a suburb late at night, an officer is more likely to say “are you ok” not “what is your business here”.  I feel guilt and don’t know how to address the problem.

Young blacks’ clothing can be disconcerting

30baggy600_12Robert Sowards,
Austin, TX.

I’m sure it’s simply a cultural thing. Even so, I find the baggy pants that show part of a young black male’s but crack, and “shorts” that go down to the ankles on the one hand but sag below the crack, to be a bit disconcerting, and even intimidating depending on the “where” and the “how many.” Also, the young female blacks will wear shorts so short that both buttocks show, and tops about three sizes too small. Maybe it’s my age that I don’t find any of this appealing in the least. That goes for young adults of any race.

Usually not racism. Instead, cultures clashing.

Susan A.
Chicago, IL

Stereotypes that are now labeled as racist, actually have nothing to do with race. Actually, it is cultural difference which causes problems. Culture is what forms differences in values, ways of speaking, ways of dressing, whether people talk in loud voices or quiet voices, what people eat, what their cooking smells like- all this is cultural, not racial.

Where’s the box for cultural diversity?

Isabelle Strauss
McLean, VA

I feel boring when I fill out race and ethnicity on a form – I’m white, nuff said. Or maybe not. My father’s family is of Anglo-German descent, fairly common in the US, but my mother came to the US as an immigrant. Growing up, I spoke a different language at home, I had “weird” food in my lunch box, and my mom and I voted for president for the first time together because she became a US citizen around the time I turned 18. But because I’m white, I feel that my mother’s culture is not given the value it deserves. I’m not white and Hispanic, I’m not white and (insert racial diversity here) and so no one thinks I represent a different culture. Maybe this is generational – but I think race is not what’s important in distinguishing individuals and communities.

To me, race is just science; whether your body produces more or less melanin based on evolution to the heat or cold or sun or wind, etc, over hundreds of thousands of years. But culture is what makes us who we are. Culture gives us the language we speak, the food we like, what music we listen to, which god we pray to, and many of our values (the list can go on and on). We now have lots of boxes for racial diversity, but where’s the box for my cultural diversity?

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