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We aren’t all “Strong Black Women”

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Submitted via Twitter: @CelesteAurora

Sunday March 11, 2012- 140 character exchanges spark a rich conversation…

The Tweets that ignited the conversation…

We aren’t all “Strong Black Women”

 

 

Has “strong” become a euphemism for “it doesn’t matter how we treat them because they’ll survive”?
Pamela Upsher@PupsherLive

 

It seems so. And I often get the idea that they think we’re strong like oxen. Less than human.

 

“Strong” Yep I think it does mean it doesn’t matter how you treat them.

 

...that, and makes it easy to call some women a credit to our race if we aren’t loud, abrasive, or bitter

 

B/c it can be a little like describing a black person as “articulate.” I think it depends on who is making the description.

 

black women are always expected to endure anything and everything sometimes making it impossible to get help

 

Just yesterday I thought: I’ve put up so many walls trying 2b “strong”. Time for vulnerability.

 

“strong” definitely backhanded if used as a character trait or trope…maybe not so much if used to (cont)
Evan@Kerr1ck

 

..describe someone and her accomplishments individually? (disclaimer- white dude)

 

I HATE “strong” & “resilient” – they make me sound like a weed, not a flower.

 

A heritage that no one sees

Evangeline Brennan,
CA.

I chose the words, “A heritage that no one sees”, because, simply put, I am white (and, yes, I understand that it is a racial euphemism). My father’s family came to America sometime during the Irish Potato Famine. My mother, on the other hand, is Filipino, born in the Philippines and emigrated to America with her family when she was in the sixth grade.

I look like my father and so, for my entire life, any cursory look has labeled me simply as “white”. When with my mother, it’s been assumed I’m adopted or, when initially meeting someone, “a friend of the family” even at my own family reunions. No one really puts much thought into the idea that a white person can have a cultural history or be anything other than “white”. Probably because, historically, it has been an oppressive “race” focused on establishing a social hierarchy and disparaging the cultures of others.

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