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I don’t know how to act

Eryne Tinajero,
Honolulu, HI.

I am biracial. I wasn’t raised with much knowledge of either culture. It’s always tough to visit the two different sides of my family. I feel as if they don’t see me as one of them. I feel like an outsider because I don’t know the cultures. I don’t know the languages. I don’t know the traditions. I don’t know who I’m supposed to be. Sometimes I feel as if I’m missing a big part of my identity.

We are all shades of brown.

Paul Ruscher
Eugene, OR
Explore Identity

It is time to ignore appearance…it facilitates judging others. I am a father of 11 including 5 adopted kids and I love them all and wish others did. but my biological kids (Caucasian) have always been more accepted than my darker complected ones (adopted from India and some from an African-American heritage). You can learn so much by talking to people than by judging them based on any aspect of their appearance. Your segment today was inspiring; thanks!

Acknowledging whtie privilege — just the start.

Shannon Rose
Eugene, OR
Explore Identity

People have so much baggage about privilege. So often people act as though it’s the end of a conversation. That somehow acknowledging the privilege that comes with just being seen as white means that you didn’t work hard for what you have, or that you don’t deserve it. I find it strangely coincidental that that is the same judgement often used against programs like affirmative action. The idea that there is *actually* more privilege bestowed by virtue of non-white status – and a presumption of lazy freeloading – while simultaneously asserting no claim to any privilege of our own. Instead, it would be refreshing to see a conversation start with an acknowledgement of the privileges bestowed upon the group, ‘white people’ (while recognizing the dedication and determination of individuals within the group) and move beyond the stricture of who ‘deserves’ what they have.

You’re White, You Can’t Be Hispanic

Erica Shofner
Eugene, OR
Explore Identity

Being mixed race is a blessing and a curse. I don’t have to deal with the unfortunate social stigma that comes with being Hispanic in America because of my light complexion, but I’m deprived of acceptance by the Hispanic community for the same reason. I thirst to experience that side of my identity, but my father’s absence took my cultural keys away. I’m stuck between worlds and I want to drink them both in. Why can’t they mix like mine and so many other’s racial identities?

Too white to be Asian, too Asian to be white.

Sara Higgins
Eugene, OR
Explore Identity

“I’m not interested in living in a world where my race is not a part of who I am. I am interested in living in a world were our races, no matter what they are, don’t define our trajectory in life.” – Kerry Washington (Behind the Scenes of Scandal on Nightline 05/15/13)

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