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Latino Gay Man Pursuing Higher Education

José Martinez,
Duluth, GA

In a world that is currently against people that look like me, I fear that my pursuit for higher education will be useless because I won’t get the respect for being successful in my new career. I however am reminded that educating myself is important to me and what I want to accomplish and I cannot let those who are pushing me and my people down win. We will overcome, We will do better! I am more than what they believe me to be. We are more than what we are led to believe! Si se puede familia!

We are living on stolen land.

McKayla Milam,
Powder Springs, GA

The six words that I chose was to remind people, including myself, that everyday we live our lives on land that never initially belonged to us. Therefore, we are all immigrants except for those that are Native Americans. I try to keep them in mind more often and not just around Thanksgiving like the rest of society does. I cannot imagine how they must feel on a daily basis or what they go through having to be the minority on land that was theirs to begin with.

You black? Passe blanc. No, Creole.

Goins-FamilyAugust A. Goins Jr.,
Atlanta, GA.

Growing up as a light skin black man of creole decent, people assume I want to be white. Not because of something I said or did, but based solely on my skin color. As if I had a choice of my skin color. I’m proud of who I am, and my skin color is part of me. When someone makes a comment, usually derogatory, about my color, I reply, “Contrary to popular believe, I like my skin color. And I wouldn’t change it for anything or anyone.”

Always searching for where I belong

Tyler Brown,
Ellenwood, GA

I chose the phrase “Always searching for where I belong” because it encapsulates my journey as a young black female who grew up in predominantly white environments. Throughout my childhood, I often felt out of place, struggling to find my identity because of different cultural influences. My hair, skin color, and even culture were constantly put on a critical pedestal. Up until middle school; I attended a predominately white charter school; and due to this environment, I spent my early years with many negative thoughts and feelings about myself. During middle and high school, I had the fortune of, not only, being around people who looked like me, but individuals from other cultures and backgrounds, Being exposed to various cultures, I’ve come to appreciate mine and others, however, I still struggled with a few of the same feelings that stemmed from my early school years. Attending an HBCU has been transformative, allowing me to connect more deeply with my culture and the experiences of others who share similar backgrounds. This ongoing search for belonging and self-acceptance emphasizes the significance of celebrating our unique identities in a world where racial and cultural differences can often create feelings of isolation.

While there’s no finishline: Americans All

William Eckman,
Atlanta, GA.

We come from different families, different cultures, different schools but for all to win as a great nation we must be less tribal and remember “out of many one”! This is the glue that holds us together and allows all of us to work to make tomorrow better than today across ALL arenas.

Family contrast black white shows beauty

P8022086Sherry Weaver,
Woodstock, GA.

Our family is a beautiful rainbow. We are pink with brown spots and brown with pink spots.

We are just a family. I didn’t “rescue” anyone-we gave each other gifts. I was given the incredible gift of love and diversity, and they got a family who loves them and can appreciate them. Just like all families, each individual brings something different to the whole. My first son is empathetic, my second son is a great athlete and my daughter is beautiful and caring.

It’s not about surviving being black, It is about realizing how wonderful it is to be of African heritage and how wonderful it is to be of Scottish heritage. I tell my daughter how beautiful she is while I put on my makeup and tell her how lucky she is to have such gorgeous mahogany skin.

She understands this is just one of the the many joys of being black. Anyone who can’t see that is just not looking.

And no disrespect Chris Rock- She does have “Good Hair”. It is as beautiful as the rest of her.

Military families: ahead of the curve.

Monique Hollis-Perry
Alpine, CA

Military bases overseas were homes to many biracial families like mine, and my sister and I went to school with classmates who looked like us. It was many years and thousands of miles from being sent to Fort Gordon, GA as a test case in the 1960s to see how (or whether) soldiers with mixed families could live safely in the South. It was sobering to return to the States and meet people who found us “exotic”, “foreign”, and “strange”. These inquiring minds did not understand that kids like me came from two interconnected cultures: the military and the slipstream allowing us to draw from both parents’ heritages. For us, this was normal.

I don’t care about my race.

Adam L Wright,
Dillard, GA

p>We live in a day and age where everything seems to be about race, and as someone who loves humankind, I think bringing race into everything does nothing but cause greater division. I have plenty of White, Black, Hispanic, and other friends, and we don’t talk about race, we just do life together. I would argue that constantly bringing up race, even if it is in an attempt to support people of other heritages, is more divisive than unitive. We are one race: the human race. We all bleed red. I don’t think certain groups need certain days/months in honor of them, I think we should all just celebrate humanity and unity. We are stronger together, so it is time to look past color and look at people for who they are…HUMAN!

“You remind me of my mother.”

Susan Boyer,
Decatur, GA.

These words were spoken to me by a young black waiter. I’m an old white woman. “We got a connection”, he said. And I felt it. I was so touched by his generosity of spirit. I walk around my diverse city, aware of my racist culture and upbringing and practice looking at folk who don’t look like me thinking “There goes Jesus, incarnate again.” I have to work at letting my prejudice go. But for this young man, it just came naturally. He was a blessing to me and I’m grateful.

“You talk so proper,” Dude, what?

Jasmine N. Allen,
Atlanta, GA

The first four words are a quote from something someone said to me on the first day of 7th grade. I had just asked the teacher a question when the girl sitting next to me turned and said this. I was confused by what she meant because I didn’t say anything that was that different than what the other people said before me. It wasn’t until I got home and told my mom about this and she responded, “Well, what did she expect you to sound like?” That it clicked for me that the girl had made an expectation of me based on nothing other than what I looked like. Now, the girl may not have meant anything racist but the point still stands that black people are unfairly stereotyped as uneducated and improper, and when they show that they are educated the black person is met with surprise.

Freckles don’t make me a freak

Karlee Hedden,
Young Harris, GA

Growing up, I was often picked on for having freckles. As I got older I began to hate them and wanted to cover them up and have them one day removed. In the last few years I received many compliments on them and it became a trend for young girls and women to give themselves freckles with henna and different makeup products. I never understood why I received the comments on them I had received as a child until my view on them began to change. I now love them and don’t know what it would be like without them. I get to watch them pop more in the Summer and enjoy my friends randomly asking me if they can connect the dots all together one day.

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