I fell for the assimilation trap
Brian Roberts,
Gaithersburg, MD.
I am a middle-aged American black man. I thought that if I lived my life as a solid citizen, went to the right schools, secured a good career, raised a family, I would not only provide for my family, I would set an example that would make white people less frightened by black people. I thought my example of hard work and assimilation, and that of others who followed a similar path, would improve race relations. This has not been the case. In fact, my example is used to discredit other black people who have not had the same success. What I hear is, “if you made it, what’s wrong with other blacks? Why can’t they do it?” As if racial prejudice, discrimination and institutional racism did not exist. It’s very frustrating.
I am feared yet I’m fetishized
Elijah L Wheeler,
Gaithersburg, MD.
I’m a big Black man that can feel the fear of others as I enter their spaces, yet I also hear and am told of their amazement of my aesthetic. My muscles, my skin tone, my voice…as if their “amazement” is envious, jeaolous and hateful all at once…
Never arrested for Driving While White.
Deb Vaughn,
Gaithersburg, MD.
I can drive around with anything in my car and never get a traffic stop. If I were a Person of Color, that would not be the case. My parents never had to have “the talk” with me…
Race should not matter in intelligence.
Leo Azucena,
Gaithersburg, MD.
…but, Daddy, what is a Negro?
Harvetta Asamoah
Gathersburg, MD
At 4 years old, while watching attacks on TV with dogs (at that age dogs terrified me under any circumstances), trembling, and listening to my parents loudly discussing it, this word, “Negro” puzzled me. So I raised my small voice, patted his knee and finally got Daddy’s attention, “What, baby?” “Daddy….what’s a Negro?” After a short breathless pause, his booming laughter made me smile. He lifted me up, hugged me and said” YOU, are a Negro.”






