Healing begins with the word hello.
Marguerite Stocker,
Long Branch, NJ.
Monmouth University
Hesci, hello, I am Poarch Creek.
Elizabeth McGhee,
Tuscaloosa, AL.
A couple years ago I got to be a part of one of the best experiences of my life. I was part of the 2013 Tribal Princess Competition. Every Thanksgiving in Poarch, AL three girls are chosen to represent their tribe throughout the next year at different events. When I made the decision to run I never thought that I would have as much fun as I did, or that I would learn so much about the people that I come from.
I chose these six words because not only did I get to show you an example of Creek language, but I am proud to say that I am a Poarch Creek Indian. That culture lives inside of me and even though I may not know nearly as much as I would like to one day, I know enough to say that being an Indian is nothing to be ashamed about. The racism between blacks and whites in the past is always heard about, but most people do not realize that Native Americans faced those same struggles. My own grandfather walked to school most days because Indians were not allowed to ride the school bus. Being Poarch Creek makes me who I am today… strong, confident, and always kind.
Hi I’m George, what’s your name?
Larry Taylor
Webster, TX
Six words which could have saved a young man’s life.
Blacks won’t let me be friendly
Randa New,
Hillsboro, OR.
While passing blacks walking on the sidewalk black adult looks away while their child will smile back at me. How can I connect with them when they look away?
Cautious eye-holding while saying hello.
Mark Loup,
Williams Bay, IL.
This is one of the reasons I’m glad I left Chicago, one of the most segregated big cities in America. The tension just seems to overwhelm intentions. I live near the resort city of Lake Geneva in Wisconsin, and while I’m sure there’s plenty of racism here, there’s less tension. I work in retail, and when black people come into the shop, they expect to be treated like everyone else, and they’re relaxed about it. I also see more mixed-race couples. It just feels like less of an issue.
Granted, I haven’t been here long, and I don’t see any businesses owned by black people, nor am I aware of black people belonging to any of the governments of the local villages and townships. Same goes for the local chambers of commerce and business associations.
But just to be able to talk to people without that suspicion and caution as a starting place feels wonderful.
Say Hello First Then Think Twice
Lauri McNamara,
Greenfield, MA.
I see strangers in my neighborhood when I walk my dog and instead of being afraid and making snap assessments based on their age, skin, group, I slow myself down and try to make eye contact, say hello and take it from there. I wish more people would give it a try. Connect with other humans, whether they are familiar or not. Say Hello.
