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I Need Someone Who Speaks English

Picture-of-my-paJoseph Anico Angeles
Irvine, CA

I was born in the Philippines and when I turned three, my father (pa) enlisted in the U.S. Navy and moved to the U.S. to provide a better life for me and my mom. Shortly after his enlistment we joined him in San Diego, California.

San Diego was the premiere destination for enlisted Filipino men in the Navy… not for the weather, but for the sense of community. My family and I lived in neighborhoods where Filipinos were the majority, not the minority.

I remember pa telling me a story about a time he was on duty when a Caucasian lady called and spoke to him for less than five minutes. Upon hearing my pa’s accent, she asked to speak to someone who spoke English. He politely asked her what she needed help with but she refused to continue to speak to him.

This infuriated him so much so that he took the opportunity to tell her that he has two degrees (bachelors and masters), studied Theology, and told her he knows more of the English language than she will ever know. His retelling of the story struck me to the core. I felt sorry for my pa that he had to go through this. But this story is what set the course for my wanting to be successful in everything I do, especially to prove the naysayers wrong.

To that lady who called my pa… we can speak English alright, and we do it very well.

You’re German? Was your family Nazis?

Kaleb Wombacher,
Irvine, CA

Being of mostly Western European descent I really don’t experience a lot of hate or judgment so I try my best to be a good ally for those who do. But the most appalling thing I’ve been asked regarding my own race came from my overtly German/Austrian Lastname, Wombacher-Trolinger. It was a really jarring question for a lot of reasons. But most importantly I think it was the first time anyone had ever assumed anything about me because of my race. My family came to America in the 1800s but even if they didn’t the question would still make me feel as awful as it did. My race and genetics give me no personal cultural connections to such an atrocity and the question suggests a lack of understanding that I am my own person.

Privilege lives everywhere, silent but deadly

Ava Zahm,
Irvine, CA

White privilege is something I’m embarrassed to have learned about so late in my life. As a young white woman, I live a completely different life with so many fewer hardships, threats, and dangers than the life of someone identical to me but with more melanin in their skin. White privilege is something which is horrifically ignored and unspoken about, particularly among white people. Ignorance is bliss for so many people who don’t want to acknowledge how extremely serious American racism still is and will continue to be.

Ignorance is Bliss in Korean Culture

Juliet Kim,
Irvine, CA

In Korean culture, mental health and awareness is not something that is openly talked about. Being a first-generation citizen of the United States, I grew up with both American and Korean cultures that have shaped me into who I am today. I feel that mental health and awareness is extremely important for all individuals to maintain. Because of my Korean heritage, I have never felt comfortable speaking about my personal mental health to my family. When I was experiencing anxiety and a mood disorder, I decided to reach out to a professional without the help of my parents. I didn’t inform them of my decision until years later. This fear of rejection from my family, instilled by the norms of Korean culture, kept me from informing them of serious mental issues. I feel that it is important for first-generation citizens to know that their personal state of mind matters and that it is more than okay to reach out for professional help.

Stop calling us sick men of Asia

Jiawei Wang,
Irvine, CA

After more than ten years of reform and opening up, China is no longer what we were before. We changed the government and changed the policies, and people gradually broke through the country’s blockade and went out of the world. What you should do is to help us get rid of the dictatorship that is not conducive to development. Rather than watching and staring at each other with hands folded.

“You’re white-passing, you aren’t discriminated against!”

Sanaz Chloe Homayounieh,
Irvine, CA

It’s a common joke among Iranians: “They used to classify us as Caucasian, but once 9/11 happened, now we aren’t white!”

Traveling has always been an interesting experience for my family. Growing up, being stopped at airport security was not unusual. Whether they checked our hair, ankles, or even our bare wrists, there was always something that caused airport security to pat us down. So much for “random security checks”, right? Some trips result in quicker checks, while others lead to quite uncomfortable situations. Even now, my mother and I in particular are stopped every time we pass security. Every 9/11, I await the never-ending jokes about how Islam is the motivation behind the attack. How my people are terrorists. How every Middle Eastern was directly involved in the attack. Even years after 9/11, the comments do not stop. It also did not help that my younger brother was born on the same day, his teachers end up thinking he is trying to cause a disturbance in class when announcing his birthday. A few years ago, my family and I went to take passport photos at Costco so we could visit Iran. It was the first instance where I had to wear a hijab in public since Iranian documents required us to wear one for any legal photos. I had never been stared at so much in my entire life. My family was met with weird looks, some even glaring at us. The walk to the photo center felt like it lasted an eternity. As a child, I never expected I would experience racism in any way, shape, or form. This was America, after all: my family traveled here to start a new life. Unfortunately, racist remarks towards my people are tossed around like their words have no meaning. I will not deny the privilege that my lighter skin holds. However, I will not deny the fact that my family has been direct targets of racism and prejudiced intentions.

Define race. Ha I thought so!

Nicole,
Irvine, CA

Who can give a clear definition of race? Does that definition “A race is a grouping of humans based on shared physical or social qualities into categories generally viewed as distinct within a given society” sound familiar?-most of us don’t even know our ancestry until we take DNA tests so can we really label ourselves a certain race?

Racial borders only hold us back

Ricky Verdugo,
Irvine, CA

For years, I have heard stories of racial injustice and discrimination and have even seen it happen right in front of me. For centuries, humans have insisted on dividing up populations by race, thinking that race decided one’s intelligence or even their level of superiority over others. It is time that we come together to tear down these misconceptions and work to build a better society for us all.

You may not know you’re racist.

Taylor Hirano,
Irvine, CA.

Growing up in a mostly Caucasian community, many of my fellow peers didn’t know they were racist against me. It could come from backhanded compliments like “You’re so pretty for an Asian”, to minor comments such as “My sisters boyfriend is Asian, you probably know him”. Whenever I said anything they would always say “I didn’t know it was racist” or “I didn’t mean it like that”.

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