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Beauty, brains, sheltered, judge and envied but loved

Nevaeh Shorter,
Irving, TX

These six words sketch the real texture of my days as a Black girl growing up. People often tell me I’m beautiful and clever, and I’m proud of both, but I move through a world that still casts shadowy judgments and expects me to prove myself at every turn. I’m sheltered in some moments protected by family and friends who want me safe but I’m also pushed to push beyond comfort, to speak up, to show up, to excel. A judge watches my every move, deciding who I am before I can show who I am, and I feel the weight of that gaze in public, on the street, at work . Some envy the doors I hope to open, the opportunities I pursue, though they don’t see the late nights, the careful choices, the fear-of-failure that rides along. Yet through it all I am loved—by family, friends, mentors—reminding me that my worth isn’t defined by others’ opinions but by the resilience I bring to each day.

Your son looks nothing like you!

IMG_6916Dr. J.,
Irving, TX.

It’s true, everyone tries to find similarities between babies and their parents. But the search ends when people see my son’s curly golden hair, blue eyes, and light complexion. Someone once asked me, “are you sure you want to name him Diego?” (when he was 9 months old). I’ll admit it, this is my issue and my sensitivity. Somewhere, though, in all of this, it seems like people are trying to find a way to say, “huh, he’s not dark skinned.” So even though the house is bilingual, we speak Spanish when we’re at the park, at the grocery store, or at my school. And today leaving the park getting into the car he asked for his “agua.” And it was awesome.

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