My Name Was a White Girl
Brooke Cobbin
Jacksonville, FL
For years, I have been pleasantly surprising people because when they read my name Brooke (Morgan) Cobbin they expect to see a white girl. When they read my essays, my emails…they think I am white. It’s funny to me because of how names are trendy. How many Madisons do you know that were born between 2002 and 2012? What’s in a name? When you saw that I was black, did you feel differently? Did you think of some new questions to ask? I mean some people have been terribly honest. I began to wonder if this was why I continued to find myself as the only black girl in a particular group. It’s better now, but it still rests in the back of my mind. There are many educated, hard-working, black women named Brooke in this world!
Why we hafta be “Afro” Anything?
Walter T. Pearson,
Jacksonville, FL.
I’m a black man, of many various ethnicities, Fifth American generation, from a family of military veterans,including my children who are currently serving in the Afghanistan region wars. I have no relatives from Africa (that I know of),so I wonder WHY must anyone that is not white, have to be addressed as “African-Americans”….My family and I are clearly American born, but just like “Asian-Americans,Latin-Americans,Polish-Americans,Japanese-Americans….” and so on… we have to pick a specific identification….I was born HERE, not in Africa, and no longer will be addressed with an “add-on” title.
Finding my voice without silencing yours
Jake Moorehead,
Jacksonville, FL
Sometimes I feel like as a white man, it isn’t my place to speak. And I understand where that comes from. It doesn’t anger me, but sometimes it frustrates me because I do want to be an ally to people of color. I believe that judging people preemptively based on their physical characteristics is inherently wrong, no matter what those physical characteristics are, and I want to stand up for that truth. I worry that people assume I hold beliefs that I don’t because of the way I look, or I read things online specifically targeting people of my identity. Again, I get where this comes from, and I frequently get frustrated with white boys for their stupid offensive jokes or old men for their outdated beliefs, but I still know that generalizations are destructive. They just encourage more generalizations. I hope we can be accepting of others and supportive of people of color without ostracizing people in support of an accepting message. I was born into a native culture that I personally rarely felt comfortable with once I began to have real relationships with black and middle eastern people. I think so much of racial discourse is motivated by fear, often understandably in response to tragedy. But I still truly believe that the only way to mend our wounds is through love of each other. I know race is a disastrous human construct based on differences so minute that they’re honestly laughable. We need to continue to break down the walls that separate us, without eliminating the beautiful diversity of our cultures. Under our current administration, it often feels like our walls are growing higher.
What is the real difference here?
Harold Laski,
Jacksonville, FL
I’m seventy two, and race tired!
Celeste Havis,
Jacksonville, FL.
Science and religion alike informs us that the concept of race is an illusion. Why do we continue to hang on to this antiquated concept when it only serves to divide us? I have dedicated my life to building positive human relations and now it appears to me that we are truly” stuck on stupid.” I was hoping to see some evidence that we could overcome this addiction in my lifetime, but I guess not…so tragic.
Race doesn’t tell the whole story
Sara Branly,
Jacksonville, FL.
Although i’m white, i have an incredibly diverse family’ culturally, ethnically, racially, religiously, etc.; you can’t tell anything about a person by the color of their skin.
Defined by race – who am I?
Jamie Lee Myers
Jacksonville, FL
Many people seem to identify who they are by their race. We also all seem to have a tendency toward making assumptions based on how people look. I am fair with naturally red hair that is currently blonde. Most think I am Irish and that is in my family tree, but I am so mixed that its confusing. People tell me ‘just act white’ but is that who I am? does that define me because that is how I look. Can’t I pick up other traits or behave in ways characterized by other portions of my ethnicity? My great grand father was black (though family classify him as Cuban), another great grandfather was of the Erie tribe (according to family lore) and lot of other nationalities are mixed in. How can I decide who I am? What identifies me?
Dont judge, until you know me.
Sheila Khakpour,
Jacksonville, FL.
Now a days everyone is so quick to judge each other. It simply just takes one look. It can be based on your skin color, how you look, or even your name. People are so quick on judging other individuals, no one actually tries to get to know each other anymore. Some of my best friends don’t look anything like me, nor were raised in the same place. I come from a multicultural background but, that shouldn’t allow another individual to think they know who i am before actually speaking to me. I have learned in my life some of the best people in my life, i would have never met if i hadn’t branched out. It’s okay to step out of your comfort zone sometimes, it can actually open many more doors for you.
I’ve always loved the quote,”Don’t judge a book by it’s cover”, that’s because not only does it apply to my six words, but also today’s society. People fall into too many stereotypes and get lost in it. Social media and the entertainment world has brainwashed so many of us, without any of us realizing it. It’s important to remember we are all human and not to be so quick to judge someone just because they seem different. Being unique is one of the most important qualities any individual could have, therefore we shouldn’t have to hide from what makes us who we are.
Own the hurt that you utter
Don Williams,
Jacksonville, FL.
People have a tendency to use the wrong words, the wrong tone to others and when questioned they pass the buck, they refuse to accept what came out of their mouths, its easier to blame the other person for your short comings.










