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The Uncertainty My Blackness Brings Me

Ashlei,
Knoxville, TN

Being a black woman sometimes feels like I will always have unjust obstacles in my life. I will learn to deal with them and not let them anger me the way they probably should. But I wonder if I will ever truly feel like I belong in a space. At the age of 19, I began to worry about how I will one day be treated when I give birth in a hospital. I wonder if my complaints of pain will be ignored because of the color of my skin. I hate that I now fear something as beautiful as childbirth, because of the un-proportionally high maternal mortality rates of black women in this country. I often catch myself not wanting to speak up about things that bother me because I don’t want to be perceived as “the angry black girl.” How many off-hand comments have I let slide because I was afraid of the way my disdain would be perceived? I wonder when I will ever feel like I truly belong in a space.

University of Tennessee, Knoxville Sociology 110

No one wants to hear your heritage

Macy Willett,
Knoxville, TN

Yes, I do have a heritage. Yes, I am also white. While I celebrate the unique backgrounds of my friends and coworkers, I often feel as though I have no identity or culture to grasp onto. No one wants to hear your “percentages” and what comes along with you if the end result is that you are simply Caucasian. But, I am the daughter of a second-generation German immigrant who moved to the states as a single mom. I have stories, traditions, and culture. I am proud of my heritage, even if that looks like a percentage number to some people.

The University of Tennessee, Knoxville Sociology 110

Redefining the south’s reputation for racism.

Lanthe Keller,
Knoxville, TN

I grew up in a small suburb outside of Seattle, WA. I played with and had friends in my class who looked nothing like me and only when moving to the south did I realize I had never seen so many white children. The south has a reputation for racism, it’s nestled in conversations, and, at times, the backbone of relationships. I want to redefine this horrid stigma that has persisted and help others understand that when you are born, based on the color of your skin, you have a societal privilege that no white person will ever be able to understand.

The University of Tennessee, Knoxville

If you were black you’d know.

Frank K Norris,
Knoxville, TN,

I have a good fishing buddy friend. I’m white and he is black. One day I was driving on the interstate through the center of town and he said to me. The speed limit on this stretch of the interstate is 55mph. I was driving 65mph and was completley surprised. I said that I have lived here all of my life and did not know that. He said : “If you were black you’d know.”

Racism is also prevalent in Canada

Emma Seawright,
Knoxville, TN

I am from Canada and the news covers USA news very often so during the summer when there were protests occurring in support of BLM the Canadian news was covering it. Many people might think that this would start a conversation about race in Canada but it did not, instead, many people felt removed from the uncomfortable conversations occurring. But Canada does have racism and a lot of it. Discrimination against Native Americans is very prevalent and is reflected in the rates of missing and murdered indigenous women whose families never get closure in the form an arrest because the police do not try to solve the case. There are countless other examples like this one, Canadians need to realize that racism is not isolated to the USA and there is a lot of work to be done at home too.

University of Tennessee Sociology 110

Listen to others besides your own

Kaitlyn Marek,
Knoxville, TN

All too often, I hear my white friends and family members only promoting their own ideas about society and race amongst themselves, which usually creates an “us vs. them” dynamic. All I ask of my other white folk is to genuinely listen to other people and believe their experiences instead of doubting them to maintain your own personal, emotional agenda.

University of Tennessee, Knoxville. Sociology 110.

Best of Both Worlds? Or Neither?

Cameron,
Knoxville, TN

My viewpoint comes from living in America (especially during this time of social and political unrest) as a mixed-race individual. I have experiences and family ties with two races that are seemingly at arms against each other, but I can’t (and, don’t) completely identify with one or the other. Instead, I am stuck in between the two – conflicted on how to feel, who to trust, and how to work toward a community and society that respects and values all people.

Do hillbillies have white privilege too?

Anonymous,
Knoxville, TN.

I’m from the Mountain South, where white privilege and racism take on a range of meanings outside the mainstream. I’ve heard our regional identity described as a kind of “otherized whiteness,” and I think that’s about right. Whatever else we were, we always knew our whiteness was the wrong kind. That’s what the images and dialogues on TV said to us, either directly or indirectly. It was plain that we were just a bunch of hopelessly dumb hillbillies who didn’t speak proper English. My sister told me she worked hard to shed her accent, like me, because she said she didn’t want to be perceived as ignorant. Anybody from the poor white south knows just what I’m talking about. Then there are others who embrace it, who drape it around them like flag. My parents loved watching the Beverly HIllbillies and the Andy Griffith Show, like they reveled in the delight of seeing people who talked like them on TV, even if they were represented as rubes and degenerates. I’ve never really understood that. But then they always loved All in the Family, Good Times, and The Jeffersons too.

On the other hand, it is one of the few sub-regional identities in the U.S. that allows for the possibility of something like a “white culture.” Maybe. But it has its own set of prejudices too. My grandpa worked in the coal mines of southwest Virginia. He always talked about working shoulder-to-shoulder with black miners underground, but how when they emerged on the surface, they went their separate ways with nary a backward glance. My paternal great grandfather was a renowned banjo player in Tennessee’s Cumberland Mountains, but I doubt he had any idea that the banjo was an instrument of African origin. It’s never simple.

You just assume that I’m American.

Sophie Kershaw,
Knoxville, TN.

I was born in England, lived in Denmark for a few years, and my family settled in the US. I speak American to Americans and British to my family. Most people assume I’m American, and people often make me uncomfortable by talking about “people from over there” and debating immigration reform without hesitation. Well, I’m from over there – wherever “there” is in their mind, and I wish that more people would embrace the diversity that makes this country so grand.

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