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Not Latino enough, Not American enough

Maria Lopez,
Baltimore, MD.

I remember one time I was really sick and was rushed to the ER, while registering the nurse told me “you have very good English,” which I responded as “probably because I was born here.” I may have been 13 or 14. In high school, one of the lunch ladies who in the afternoon worked in the office one day asked me “Maria, why are you taller than most Latinos?” I often asked people if I had an accent growing up. I wanted to know if I had that thick accent that most Latinos have. In school, I did not identify with the other Latino students, most of them were still in ESOL classes while I was not, they spoke in Spanish to each other while I wasn’t comfortable speaking in Spanish and they were mostly Mexican I didn’t want to be confused as being Mexican. Because I have the most Latino name people probably think that I grew up eating Pupusas and Pollo con Tajadas (Honduran plate – Fried Chicken with fried banana chips) because I’m Honduran & Salvadoran, but I also grew up eating pizza, Chinese food, Popeye’s. I was raised on Donna Summer, Michael Jackson, The Beatles, The Bee Gees, CCR, John Denver as well as Julio Iglesias, Marco Antonio Solis, Marisela, Selena.

Latino Gay Man Pursuing Higher Education

José Martinez,
Duluth, GA

In a world that is currently against people that look like me, I fear that my pursuit for higher education will be useless because I won’t get the respect for being successful in my new career. I however am reminded that educating myself is important to me and what I want to accomplish and I cannot let those who are pushing me and my people down win. We will overcome, We will do better! I am more than what they believe me to be. We are more than what we are led to believe! Si se puede familia!

My privilege matters, not being Latino.

Emilio Cosgrove,
Ellicott City, MD

I am a mixed-race individual who is Colombian and Irish. While being Latino is more significant to me than the privilege I have because of my light skin, my white privilege is what matters in determining the opportunities that are available to me, the day to day interactions I have with other people, and my quality of life. The fact that I do not think about the very movements I make in public is evidence of the freedom I have because of white privilege. America’s cultural idea of race is also very limited and confines people to a handful of categories based almost entirely on skin color. As a mixed-race person, I have lived the pain of this truth because my white identity is assumed by people who look at me, but my Latino identity is not. Due to America’s narrow perceptions of race, a core part of myself is almost never recognized.

Latino, but I am a Republican

Andres,
Colorado Springs, CO

As a second generation Mexican, with 2 parents that at one point came here illegally. I vote republican, I am a Republican. I voted for Trump, I support ICE. These things get me labeled a traitor, a bigot, or a brain washed conservative. My father came here illegally, but gained his citizenship under the Ronald Reagan administration’s Amnesty. My mother came over smuggled in the back of a Uhaul but gained her residency and proudly achieved US Citizenship this past December. I do not agree with handouts or weekly payouts for those coming here to abuse our system. I do not support our veterans, as a United States Marine Corps veteran, living on the streets while those that have given nothing for our nation are being fed with a sliver spoon. I agree with deportation and cleaning up our communities in such a way that our own citizens are provided for versus strangers. I am tired of being labeled things, or being grouped with racists for feeling that we need to get back to our core. My roots are Red White and Green, but I bleed Red White and Blue. I have this nation to thank for all the things that my family and I are blessed for, I can appreciate my heritage but recognize my present.

Texican and Kansan adopt beautiful Chinita.

2013-GT-TripSandy Mayer,
Los Angeles, CA.

I was surprised that our daughter’s Guatemalan foster family lovingly called her Chinita but understand that this is accepted in some Latino cultures. Growing up in a bi-cultural household, my sisters and I were called “cosas de la vida” by my Mexican mother. My husband and I are determined to keep our daughter’s language and (most!) customs a large part of her life, and now a part of ours.

Adopted but am I still Mexican

imageKasey Nichols,
Clemmons, NC.

I’ve known I’ve been adopted since I can remember and never questioned my ethnicity until I reached middle school age because we had to fill out cards with “check yes if Latino, African American, white or other.” Biologically I’m Mexican and Italian, but I was raised white with my dad being Greek and mom “white.” I kept asking myself what am I? I don’t speak Spanish well and I grew up with a white southern family, but my blood says Mexican and Italian. I worked in retail and Hispanic people would assume I was Latina from my short stature, olive skin, dark eyes and dark hair and started speaking Spanish, they would stop when they saw the confused look on my face. Especially when I go out with my Mexican boyfriend. However, I don’t resemble either culture. So what am I? I’m an American born and raised. I’m a mixture but I don’t need a label. I am ME. Just a person.

I hate being called a “white boy”

Anonymous,
USA.

“White boy”, , , .

What I don’t understand is why there has always had to be a race at the bottom. No one seems to be able to get the freaking idea of racial equality through the six inches between their ears. First it was Africans. Then Jews, Asians, Latinos, Middle Eastern Peoples, there is always one at the bottom. Why do humans always feel the need to elevate themselves above one another? Same species, same intelligence, same hands, same ears, we are so much more alike then different. Yet no one can ever get that. And practically my whole life is dominated by “your a white boy” and “your racist” and my school life: “get out of here ‘white boy'” “you can’t do anything because your white” and I live in a very culturally diverse community which is a good thing, but I’m so immediately judged by my skin color. It does not freaking matter what your skin color is! I can’t get a girlfriend because I’m white. I cried looking at my white hands when I was younger because of how much it was the cause of my problems. I don’t think the world will ever change. Maybe it will change who it is racist to, but seems to never stop being in some way, racist.

I hate being called a “white boy”

Anonymous,
USA.

“White boy”, , , .

What I don’t understand is why there has always had to be a race at the bottom. No one seems to be able to get the freaking idea of racial equality through the six inches between their ears. First it was Africans. Then Jews, Asians, Latinos, Middle Eastern Peoples, there is always one at the bottom. Why do humans always feel the need to elevate themselves above one another? Same species, same intelligence, same hands, same ears, we are so much more alike then different. Yet no one can ever get that. And practically my whole life is dominated by “your a white boy” and “your racist” and my school life: “get out of here ‘white boy'” “you can’t do anything because your white” and I live in a very culturally diverse community which is a good thing, but I’m so immediately judged by my skin color. It does not freaking matter what your skin color is! I can’t get a girlfriend because I’m white. I cried looking at my white hands when I was younger because of how much it was the cause of my problems. I don’t think the world will ever change. Maybe it will change who it is racist to, but seems to never stop being in some way, racist.

Speaking Spanish? Your stealing my culture.

Jordan Huff,
Athens, TX

p>I am white, but I speak Spanish almost fluently. I love Mexican food, and entertainment primarily produced for Latinos, being that I understand it. But when I decided to name my pet turtles after ingredients commonly used in Latino cooking I got called racist, and told I was trying to become a Mexican. I never knew knowing another language made you racist. Trinity Valley Community College.

White folk need more Black friends.

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Morgan Tyree,
Powell, WY.

Many Blacks have White friends and associates, most probably always have. But not so for Whites. If more Whites knew individuals from the Black, Latino, minority communities, I’m pretty sure racism would be diminished significantly.

Oh, do you speak English? Si.

17Loreina Gonzalez,
Edwardsville, KS.

Imagine not being able to have a proper conversation with anyone, because they all assume you do not speak English. They approach you at your job because they need help finding something but before they even ask their question, they ask if you speak English. They see you and a Caucasian cashier and since they’re not Latino/a they go to the other registrar only because they feel they wont be able to communicate with you. Wrong. We are all capable of understanding.

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