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Whites Have Most of the Deck

Mia,
Washington, DC,
District of Columbia

I have been repeatedly shocked for decades of my adult life at the way in which our system works so effectively for white people at the expense of a wide range of black, brown, and indigenous peoples. This white supremacist system simultaneously allows them to pretend these huge advantages don’t exist through a complex system of denial that approaches delusion. In my profession, over a period of decades, I have watched white people, both male and female, promoted above better-qualified people from a wide range of cultural backgrounds, including members of all of the other continents exclusive of Europe. Despite the objective superiority of B/B/I candidates, the unflinching devotion of white people towards each other, regardless of what is often mediocre or even subpar performance, most often results in promoting whites at the expense of higher-performing B/B/I people.

I was shocked afresh when, as a supervisor, I was told that one of the black people I supervised had pushed a white female in a different department so that she had fallen and ‘slid across the floor.’ He denied it, and I–having known him for a decade–found this highly implausible. But there was skepticism about my response to senior administration and by contrast a great deal of support for this white woman. One of the senior administrators–white male–told me I was ‘playing the race card’ on his behalf.

I wanted to tell him that our white supremacy society has the other 51 cards in CONSTANT circulation on behalf of white people: white supremacy is white people who repeatedly play the whole deck–all 52 cards–at the expense of a wide-range of B/B/I peoples: pretty much, all of the rest of us, or 90% of the human race. Black people are framed as opposite white in this toxic binary–are required for white superiority–and are therefore often subject to greater discrimination and abuse. But all B/B/I–members of all worldwide continents–are victimized because white supremacy is the first global movement that consolidates power to only 10% of the human race.

The “race card” for whites is actually a full deck, constantly working to their advantage.

When white people accuse ANY B/B/I person of using the ‘race card,’ what they are really saying is “how dare you take even one card out of the 52 that automatically belong to me just because I was born white.” And this is a grossly amoral stance that shouldn’t be acceptable to anybody of any race if, as both a national and global society, we expect true equality.

The only person in the room

Mia,
CA

Growing up in a mainly white neighborhood and going to a prominently white school was really hard being black. I never said anything about it to my family because I have never been good at expressing my feelings, but it would sometimes really bother me. In class when we talked about things dealing with race like the Civil War, everyone would always look at me with a weird look in their eyes like they were both judging and pitying me. It always made me feel like I was on the outside and missing out on some bigger thing. I felt alone.

No really what are you?

Mia,
Honolulu, HI

I grew up in Hawaii which was a very diverse place. Coming to the mainland I had a lot of people ask me what I was. When I would answer with “Japanese” they wouldn’t believe me. I admit my skin tone is darker than the average Asian person but no matter how many times I answered with “Japanese” no one seemed to believe me. I would constantly get the “But you’re from Hawaii so that means you’re Hawaiian right” and even “You’re really dark for an Asian” which was straight disrespectful in my opinion. Personally, I struggle with whether or not I am “Japanese enough” which makes these comments hit a little close to home. But I am proud to be from Hawaii and that I have a darker skin tone. But just because I am from a different place or look a little different shouldn’t mean that someone can question who I am.

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