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Secretly Jewish, with no idea why

Brian Chapman
Portland, OR

I discovered, in my 40s, that my ethnicity and my ancestry were not what I had been led to believe. For mysterious reasons (anti-Semitism) my father concocted a fictional back story that became how my brothers and I viewed ourselves. Now, with knowledge of a different cultural identity but absolutely no roots in it, I am forced to ask the question of who I really am and where I really belong.

My Family Well Kept Secret Revealed

121Mary F. Howard,
Stockbridge, GA.

I discovered I am one-fourth Native American. My paternal grandfather is full blood Cherokee. I just learned several months ago by eavesdropping on a conversation about race between my paternal uncle and aunt. They had just learned of additional children by their father outside of the marriage. It has often been the joke my mother had relations with a white man who fathered my brother. Now it is obvious why my brother skin looks white. Our father is fifty percent Cherokee Indian and fifty percent black. Both my father and brother Native American genes are dominant. As a child, I grew up wondering why my brother looked different. If we had the same father, why was my skin darker? My experience of race as a child is very different. Growing up my best friend name Rebecca was white. I could sleep over her house, but she could never sleep over my house. We lived four houses from each other and yet we lived in different worlds. I am proud of my life experience. It represents who I am has a person.

A tale of my father

Charon Mcclain,
Dallas, TX.

In 2009, my father a proud military man passed. He was a great dad and loving husband. He was a proud man who had been in the Air Force and run his own business. I thought I knew all the stories that could be told. Until a pilot sent his condolences to our family and how much he respected my dad. The story he told was after flying a mission for the military and having to drive to another base they need to find a hotel. Being tired, he went to bed. He did not realize until the next morning that my father had spent the night in the car because the hotel would not accept blacks. My dad who served his country honorably and well but still suffered discrimination. He never told anyone this story.

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