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Can We All Just Get Along!?

Bryan Quevedo
Moreno Valley, CA
California Baptist University

It was not until taking CBU HIS311 class that I have learned a lot about race and how some people are completely ignorant to what has happened in American history. The other day I walked into a grocery store to hear a cashier argue with a black male about who knows what and he stated, “its because I’m black”. I kept walking because I really did not care much for the conversation but it did make me think a little. One of the most upsetting things is to think that an individual (parse a black individual), thinks that they were the only one that was treated badly in history.

After taking this class in Cal Baptist University, I have learned that most minorities have suffered a lot at one point or another. Many races like the Irish, Jews, Japanese, Chinese, Indians and other kinds of races have suffered in America at one point or another. People who shout things like that give me the notion that they are ignorant to culture and history. America was built by immigrants and could not be done without them because they made this country what it is today. If people were blind they would not be able to tell what races are. In addition to that, most races are now mixed with other races. There will be some type of decent that is in their blood line that carries other descents that that they may not know about.

The skin color or features on an individual does not define who they are. There are diverse cultures that have mixed; providing another individual with separate beliefs. We should all get along with each other because we are all children under God; we are all brothers and sisters. Matthew 12:48-50 ESV states, “But he replied to the man who told him, “Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?” And stretching out his hand toward his disciples, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.””

Can we stop comparing our sufferings?

Alyssa Yates,
Orlando, FL.

I was going to say something about how it pis*** me off that some people assume that my life has been easy just because I’m white (in some 6 word format), but then I thought about how bigoted I am against rich people. I’m not even a hateful person, and it’s wrong for me to feel this way. Bottom line is, there will always be someone worse off and someone better off than you or me or anyone else. Why do we have to belittle what someone has gone through by saying that other people have gone through worse?

Adopted. Raised as white. No identity.

Anonymous
Kennewick, WA

Being Latina, with a white name, but in knowledge of my Latino surname. I try to be supportive of my friends with their biracial and transracial adoptions, but it is so hard. I have suffered and struggled so much with my identity. People have such good intentions, but the children suffer. Then, “Be glad you were adopted”, attempting to make me feel guilty. YOU ALL HAVE NO IDEA what it is like .

What you don’t see, others suffer.

Carrie Allan,
Takoma Park, MD.

I’m always amazed by white people who make an argument that racism is in the past. How can any of us make that claim without living the experience? Recently I watched an online discussion about the English language and the absurdities of political correctness in academia devolve into an argument about race. It started when a black woman gently expressed discomfort with some of the scorn expressed about the need for awareness of other people’s experience. I was amazed by comments equating racism with anti-Irish sentiment by the English and even with biases against particular art forms. It reminded me of an amazing line from a New Yorker feature about Richard Pryor, in which the writer said that exposing things to white people is like trying to explain them to babies. It’s not because we’re stupid — most of us just have no experience that allows us to fully understand what it’s like to be instantly visually “categorized” by people in power.

Democracy and segregation cannot co-exist. We all suffer.

Lee Anne Bell
New York , NY

As a white person in this country I am disgusted by the lack of public will to challenge institutionalized racism. As a student of our ugly racial history, I know that we will never move forward as a country until we acknowledge and atone for our racial past. I support reparations and resources to build public institutions that serve those who have been most discriminated against. I believe such institutions ultimately serve us all and strengthen our democracy. Without that, I fear we will continue to decline.

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