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My Tenth Birthday Was Super Awkward

Wilson Sunny,
Sunnyvale, TX

I was born September 11th, 1991. Ten years later, a great national tragedy happened within the United States that shook the nation to the core. It was the first time, I believe, the term “terrorist” became a mainstream word. Not when Timothy McVeigh decided to blow up a building in Oklahoma City. Nor would Americans be called as such when they were first involved with fighting in the Middle East during the Gulf War. It’s only reserved when nations decide to attack America. But, I digress. When we learned about the attack, everyone was in shock. Once the shock subsided, anger arose. Anger for people who look a specific way. For those who wear a specific type of clothing, or for those who have a specific skin tone color. A color that I have. While the anger never led to physical violence in my life, it did lead to snide comments, especially with a birthday tied to the event. Others would ask “was that a gift from Uncle Osama?” The problem with the joke is I am not Middle Eastern. My parents were born in the South of India. But we were all just blindly melded together. I should be grateful that no physical harm came towards me. But, I know that there are those who did have to suffer persecution for events they had no hand in. Just as Japanese Americans had to face in the 1940’s. And just as those that have suffered after the 2016 election…

Focus on me, not my appearance

Shelby,
Sunnyvale, CA.

Too many people in this world focus on how we look when we should be focused on our character and our personality. We are too fascinated with our physical appearance when we should be fascinated with our words, our actions and our intelligence. Those are the things that should truly define who we are. Race, gender, social class, and social class should not define who we are and should not dictate our relationships with people. The idea of race was created by society and too many times has it caused wars and senseless acts of violence both physically psychologically. It’s time to stop looking at each other’s physical traits and start seeing what’s on the inside. We are all people and we are all living among each other. Why can’t we do it in peace?

LOVE acknowledges and celebrates racial differences.

Suzanne Koch
Sunnyvale, CA

First and foremost, I’m a mom. Being a mom to a child who doesn’t look the rest of our family is both the simplest thing in the world and the most complicated. Falling in love with my son, who is adopted and has brown skin, was as straight-forward as any Mama/Baby Love can be. Loving and raising him is full of the same joys and trials as loving and raising my two biological children. But – seeing the power of my white privilege and the impact it has on my son – this is so painful. Most of the prejudice/stereotyping/discrimination he has experienced has been subtle, but it is real nonetheless. Teaching him to be proud of who he is, comfortable with his life story, assertive in the face of prejudice, and yet safe, safe, safe….it’s a tricky thing to do, especially for two white parents. I don’t feel comfortable trusting the world to treat him well. I hate that I don’t have the same worries about my other two kids.

Most racists I’ve met are black

Dave S
Sunnyvale, CA

It may be because they have been discriminated against in the past, that black culture has developed as separate but unequal segment or how African Americans have experienced interaction with other cultures and races, but in my experience, African Americans view the world and life through race above most else. Is this not the definition or Racism? I Hope we can move beyond this way of thinking and feeling, but it will take all Americans, Whites, Black, Brown, Yellow and Red (including the government) to stop thinking about citizens as a member of one race or another and start working together as individuals, Americans and fellow Humans.

Jury Instructions Vary With Defendant’s Race

David Waters
Sunnyvale, CA

I am glad that juror B37 spoke out and explained what happened in the jury room and I understand why they voted as they did. They voted the way they did simply because of the way that these particular Florida laws were written and the lack of clarification or instruction on what context to apply them while considering all of the details in the case. So, this jury chose to vote not guilty because they felt that George Zimmerman was in fear for his life, even if just for a fleeting moment of a confrontation that he initiated.

Unfortunately, Trayvon Martin is not alive to be given the same consideration and opportunity as George Zimmerman was to benefit from this vague law. In hindsight, Trayvon Martin obviously had legitimate cause to be in fear for his own life for several reasons: 1) the confrontation was initiated by Zimmerman as soon as he profiled Martin and took the voluntary action to follow him against the advice of the operator whom he called for help; 2) since Martin did not initiate the confrontation, his only option was to react to Zimmerman’s intimidation because he was in fear of a “creepy”, adult stranger following him, alone in the dark; and, 3) Trayvon Martin was the one to truly “stand his ground” because it was George Zimmerman who impeded Martin’s right to walk home freely and without intimidation.

I have a few questions for anyone who claims that the murder of Trayvon Martin was not about “race”. Imagine the scenario in which Trayvon Martin had killed George Zimmerman, either with his hands or even with Zimmerman’s own gun. According to the logic of the jurors, George Zimmerman was justified in killing a teenager for what amounts to a school yard fist fight. By the same logic, Trayvon Martin had every right to be in fear for his life whether or not he knew that Zimmerman was armed with deadly force. George Zimmerman’s actions denied Trayvon Martin’s right to walk home peacefully and without intimidation and Zimmerman knew that he was the one with the advantage by virtue of possessing deadly force!

So, considering the scenario in which Trayvon Martin was the sole living survivor of the confrontation with George Zimmerman…

Would the same jury have used the same rational to acquit Trayvon Martin if he had been on trial?

Would the jury have been given the same freedom to apply the law if Trayvon Martin was the defendant or would the judge have narrowed the applicable parameters?

Would the Sanford Police Department have released Trayvon Martin for defending himself by killing George Zimmerman, a stranger in possession of deadly force, who was following Martin to the point that Martin felt compelled to react?

Would the same Sanford Police Officer who essentially acted as a convincing character witness for George Zimmerman have extended the same courtesy to a surviving Trayvon Martin?

I don’t believe that George Zimmerman is a racist of the same kind as the people who murdered James Byrd, Jr. However, I do believe that George Zimmerman ACTED IN A RACIST MANNER when he incorrectly concluded that Trayvon Martin was a criminal suspect while Trayvon Martin was not observed committing a single crime and had just as much right as George Zimmerman himself to walk home in the same neighborhood, freely and without intimidation.

Racism is the act of using a perceived concept of “race” to apply different behaviour to different individuals and you need not be a Ku Klux Klan member to act as a racist – you can be a neighborhood watch captain, a police officer, a trial attorney, a judge, a juror, or even a teenager being followed by a creepy stranger.

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