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Ni de aquí, ni de allá

Ana Rodríguez,
Wayne State,
Antioch, IL

Selena’s dad explained it best in his monologue where he talks about how tough it is to be Mexican-American. He goes on to explain that, “Anglos jump all over you if you don’t speak English perfectly and Mexicans jump all over you if you don’t speak Spanish perfectly…We have to be twice as perfect as anyone else…We have to know about John Wayne and Pedro Infante…We have to know about Frank Sinatra AND Agustin Lara…We have to know about Oprah AND Cristina…Anglo food is too bland and yet we go to Mexico and we get the runs…Japanese-Americans, Italian-Americans, German-Americans, their homeland is on the other side of the ocean…OURS is right next door. Right over there…And we gotta prove the Americans how American we are… And we gotta prove to the Mexicans how Mexican we are… We gotta be more American than the Americans and more Mexican than the Mexicans…BOTH at the same time! Its EXHAUSTING!”

I’m just stuck in the middle.

Alexis Berry,
Wayne State,
Detroit, MI

Being Biracial is really a challenge. Being half black and half Arabic makes me feel like I belong to neither race. Many people look to their own race as somewhere they belong, but it’s the opposite for me. Since I’ve been young each race makes me feel like I’m not “really” apart of their society. There has been several encounters where I have been talked down upon because of my race. This only makes me stronger and more compassionate to those who also deal with this. The less race revolved we are the better!

Shouldn’t matter so much in America.

Brandi Jones,
Wayne State,
Detroit, MI

Growing up as an African American in America is exhausting. We are supposed to be the land of the free where you can be who you are. Instead black people who are born here are treated worse than immigrants. We are not terrible people just because we are a different color.

Stereotypes are a result of laziness

Christal L,
Wayne State,
Detroit, MI

Instead of getting to know people, some find it easier to put people into boxes. Black = bad. White = good. Mexican = illegal, etc. It’s sad. Get to know people. Skin color gives a hint to who a persons ancestors could have been. It says nothing about the persons character.

Plants, birds, people – celebrate life’s colors.

Rose Mary Prifest,
Wayne State,
Harper Woods, MI

If there is anything important I learned in my lifetime, it’s acceptance of peoples’ differences. The key is education. It is opening your mind and heart to learning what makes people who they are. We may not agree with how they worship, whom they love, and how they celebrate, but we should always respect their existence and their human right to be themselves.

The only reason I was arrested.

Mignon Lott,
Wayne State,
Detroit, MI.

My boyfriend and I were out on M59 heading to an event that he was catering when I was flicked. I pulled over. The officer walked up to the car and asked did I know why he pulled me over. I said no. He said because I didn’t have my lights on, but it was dusk, the sun was just barely going down, I didn’t say that to him. He asked do they work and I turned them on for him. He asked for my license and I informed him that I had lost it earlier that day but I recited my license number and gave him my work badge, insurance and registration (which also lists my drivers license number). He went to his car, ran my info ( or so he said, but he wasn’t really gone long) and came back to the car and instructed me to get out of the car. He handcuffed me and said my license wasn’t valid. I told him that the cuffs were too tight and they hurts and he yanked my arms up to tighten the cuffs. He handled me roughly the whole way to the squad car and shoved me in. As I sat up I noticed him and his partner searching my car. They actually found my license for me. They drove me to the station and once there a woman began to process me in. She asked me what happened and I told her why they stated they pulled me over. She said the sun hasn’t set yet. I looked at her as if to say, “I know.” She looked me in the eye and said, “ok, we’ll get you on your way.” She finished what she was doing with my information, got up and walked over to the desk commander, after 10 minutes and $150, I was walking out calling my sisters to pick me up to go get my car. They had taken my boyfriend to his catering event and gave him the keys to my car and allowed him to park the car in a parking lot.

I believe they pulled me over because they saw me with my afro puff and immediately profiled me. My boyfriend (who later became my husband of 10 years) was very fair. I later found out that they told him not to “mess with my kind.” It was a very menacing ordeal and kept me away from that area for a very long time. I didn’t even want to go out towards that area. I’m glad that I didn’t loose my temper or resist from the pain that the handcuffs were causing to my wrists because it could have ended the same way that Sandra Bland’s case ended. I just continued to cooperate and not be combative. But I feel like I would’ve have been well within my rights to fight it because they had no reason to treat me the way they did. It was embarrassing and I really felt like it was my fault because I was the one that had lost my ID, so I never told anyone, until recently.

Black and Beautiful with Breathtaking Strength

Sidni Sera Goodman,
Wayne State,
Eastpointe, MI

Being black in America is more than just challenging. There are so many highs and so many lows. I dealt with one day feeling black and proud, seeing how other cultures love my culture, style, flair, music, etc., then other days, I see how my black brothers and sisters literally get the cops called on them for absolutely no reason at all and it seems like nothing is being done about it. I literally see how the US government is against us, but then I see our God-given strength and it takes my breath away. It takes my breath away that you still see us smile, dancing, and saying “Thank you God for giving me breath in my body.” Still being polite, still being professional in the most racist workplaces and establishments. The sad thing is, it’s like really nothing has changed since my ancestors got free via the thirteenth amendment in 1865, but I still see that same strength our ancestors had back then and it still….takes my breath away.

Black and Beautiful with Breathtaking Strength

Sidni Sera Goodman,
Wayne State,
Eastpointe, MI

Being black in America is more than just challenging. There are so many highs and so many lows. I dealt with one day feeling black and proud, seeing how other cultures love my culture, style, flair, music, etc., then other days, I see how my black brothers and sisters literally get the cops called on them for absolutely no reason at all and it seems like nothing is being done about it. I literally see how the US government is against us, but then I see our God-given strength and it takes my breath away. It takes my breath away that you still see us smile, dancing, and saying “Thank you God for giving me breath in my body.” Still being polite, still being professional in the most racist workplaces and establishments. The sad thing is, it’s like really nothing has changed since my ancestors got free via the thirteenth amendment in 1865, but I still see that same strength our ancestors had back then and it still….takes my breath away.

“Racist” label usually means “I disagree.”

Dan Ouellette,
Wayne State

The term “racist” is too often used to express disagreement with someone else. Rather than consider the benign logic behind someone’s viewpoint, it’s just easier to label them a “racist”. It’s the lazy-Susan tool intended to end a discussion, not foster it. There’s a mixed message out there if we’re willing to see it – both racism and critical thinking in America are diminishing, like the sun at dusk.

God painted the world in color

Cassidy Capoferri,
Wayne State,
Macomb, MI

Growing up Catholic and in Catholic schools, we were always taught that God loves everyone, no matter what. He created all people equally. It was so simple when I was younger, but the older I get, the more I see people ignoring this. It doesn’t matter what religion you’re part of, if you put your faith in God or Buddha, or if you believe in anything at all. What people should agree on is the fact that the world looks a whole lot better in color.

Independent determination perseverance honest unfair alone

Sharaya S.,
Wayne State,
Detroit, MI

Growing up in foster care and different states, people treat you different in the South vs. the North. It’s never fully accepting but feels like home, even when the hatred can be felt from complete strangers.

BLACK AND FAT WHICH WAS ENOUGH!

Shari L. Burgess,
Wayne State,
Detroit, MI

How dare I be black and then choose to be fat. Elephant, Big Nose, Whispers and Out loud comments. At 58 tears still falling, still looking for the b in black to be beautiful and f in fat to be fabulous

Equity is nice. Justice is better!

EduTechDiva,
Wayne State,
Detroit, MI

Equality is not good enough. Equity is what most are striving for now, but justice is what’s necessary and way too many folks are afraid of what this actually means. It might mean that those who’ve had the institutionally established ‘upper hand’ for a while now, experience the injustices that marginalized people have at the hands of dominant culture for far too long. Wonder what allies are willing to put THAT much skin in the game…

Wisdom truth and beauty dwell in every human heart

Rhonda McGinnis,
Wayne State

“We come from every corner. We speak in every tongue.
Brought here by a vision of what is soon to come.
No longer will we stand for bigotry and fear.
The call of peace and justice is what has brought us here.
The world that we’ve been given is not so large a place
That we can stand divided by philosophy and race.
Wisdom truth and beauty dwell in every human heart.
United we are more than we could ever be apart.”
Lyric from “Legacy” by Jiggernaut

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