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Black women not angry just tired

Stephanie Lawrence,
Baltimore, MD

Outside and inside of the black community black women are often looked down upon. We always work harder than anyone else, but it is frustrating that with multiple degrees and years of experience in our fields, we are still playing catch up. We are at the bottom of the unwritten American Caste system. We are paid the least but are the most educated, often perceived as angry, unattractive, and lazy. I am none of those traits and neither are my friends. We just want to be seen as beautiful and capable of achieving anything we want, but it has always been a struggle. So get to know a black women, you just might learn something new, meet a loyal friend, or fall in love.

I believe I can do it

James Rojas,
Buena Park, CA

Hello, I am a Mexican who was born here in the United States. I moved to Mexico at a young age and that’s where I grew up with Mexican culture.
When moving back to the United States, my mom kept repeating that I received a chance that she couldn’t have, and that is being able to finish high school and be able to attend college so I can get a career. She states that it is not only her but she is aware that her own race struggle on getting an education and a proper future. She notices the stereotypical views towards Mexicans that they only come to the US for labor and get paid minimum. Examples such as working at fast food restaurants, retail stores, and the most well-known job for Mexicans which is a construction where everyone sees Mexicans working on that job as a norm.
But, does my mother make that claim because she embraces those stereotypes because of how common they were? Well, in reality, she works with her sister cleaning houses which is work that requires physical work.
So now, I am a college student trying my best to make my mother’s dream true and show that as a Mexican I can be able to achieve more. I not only want to make my family proud, but I also want to make my culture be seen more as just pity for working the hardest job for little reward. I believe that I can do it, that I have the same chance just as every American, and that I can make people from my culture be seen as more than hard workers. I am someone with a future.

I gotta be better to be equal.

Andrea Canchola,
San Antonio, TX.

As a young, Latina, woman I feel that I have to be better than everyone just to be equal. I’m tiny, short and I will boss you around. Just because I’m a young Latina woman doesn’t mean that I’m not as good as you. I’m probably better because I had to work 10x as hard as you ever had to.

I see much. I feel everything.

IMG_20140527_191755Jeanie Mitchell,
Atlantic Beach, FL.

I’m a taxi driver. I’ve been accused of being too liberal to be a cab driver. I see so much, every day. I transport a lot of people and I hear so many stories. I fear being a white woman, carrying a white man, in this industry, more than I fear being a white woman who transports a black man, in this industry. I see the “flat line” in their eyes, when they converse with me, I hear their tired voices. They work hard, they strive to rise above.
When we strip ourselves of all; color, background, religious/sexual orientation, political views…..one is left exposed as HUMAN.

Sir, please check your White Privilege

Andrew S.
Philadelphia, PA.

To say minorities had it easy in this country would be like saying the sky is green, both insanely false statements. Minorities suffered the most in this country unless you differentiate the Native Americans who never became citizens and were killed by the millions. Were the majority of those in power White men? Absolutely. However you can not paint all white people with the same brush. All four sides of my family came over as immigrants from Ireland, being Roman Catholic, they were persecuted by the English in their own homeland and not much changed when they arrived here either. I’ll focus on my late Grandfather, the most successful and greatest person I ever knew. He was born just prior to World War II to immigrants. His Dad died when he was about 4 and his mother who had an education of just about the equivalent of a 4th Grader then so probably about a second grader today. She remarried to an abusive and angry alcoholic who despised my Pop Pop and his sister, Mary.

Eventually after a few tragedies his mother had to be institutionalize dabs while she was gone his step-father decided to put the children in an orphanage. Truly something of a plot out of Hollywood film. He learned from this man and saw that he should become nothing like him. It wasn’t an easy road, one summer at the age of 12 he took a bus to New Jersey and worked in a shop for money, sleeping in the back room. He rarely spoke of his childhood it was that bad. He eventually graduated from High School, served his country in the Air Force Reserves during the Cold War and earned several Degrees from Montgomery County Community College and LaSalle University and met the love of his life, my Mom Mom. He was an engineer at first and had a modest home where he raised his 4 daughters and 2 sons. Eventually he got into politics and was Abington Townships first Democratic Head of the Board of Commissioners in over 100 years. He eventually became involved in Real Estate and became extremely successful owning a big house in Horsham and a house in the Poconos as well. My question here is: Where was his White privilege during that entire feat? Why is it that my Dad worked 3 jobs and my mom 1? That phrase is tossed around way too much in the political spectrum and it is absolutely false. Just like any successful Black, Hispanic, Asian or any other member of a minority, my ancestors worked and worked until they accomplished their goals of having a better life and a decent career, never relenting and remaining hungry for more. There are so many successful people in America of every type of race or ethnicity and that is the most beautiful part about America. Again, I understand that minorities have had it rough in this country but in my opinion White Privilege does not exist. My Grandfather, Dad and Mom are clear examples of it.

Don’t justify with the ‘American Dream’

Kate Moss,
Tuscaloosa, AL.

The narrative of ‘work hard and you will flourish’ has become the rallying cry for people unwilling to face the realities of systemic inequity in the United States. I do not believe the American Dream is alive and well, but I think the idea of it allows people to keep a close mind and perpetuate stereotypes. Its hard to pull yourself up by your bootstraps when our system decides who gets boots and who does not.

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