My husband and I have been together for four years now. I am white, he is Vietnamese. I am originally from a small town in Virginia where there is not much diversity and let me tell you, people notice. In other areas as well we feel like there is still a bit of judgment when it comes to our interracial marriage and I know there are many couples out there who deal with the same issues. The color of people’s skin should never be a defining factor of their character or who they should decide to spend their lives with.