Constance Felton.
This question has crossed my mind in countless interactions I’ve had over the years. . .as a child trying to cross the generational/multicultural gap with my parents, a teen trying to find where she fits in, and as an adult in the professional world. I often feel like I have to explain myself, my ideas and the intent behind my words a lot more than my peers just to feel understood or taken seriously. That I have to validate the reasons why I’m asking for the same respect everyone else seems to get without thought. That I have to walk a delicate balance of not allowing myself to be talked over, but still being “nice.” Either I’m “too direct” or “not clear enough.” More often than not, I’m left with the feeling that I’m unheard.
