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A delusion based on an illusion.

Courtney Tolbert,
Washington, DC

I believe that our acceptance of racial classifications as an informative, science-based tool for perceiving and understanding each other is at the crux of our ever-evolving discord. It is a tool relevant only as a means to extract value away from individuals for purposes of exploitation and a device to coddle those with underdeveloped psychological maturity or self knowledge/acceptance. “Race” coddles the insecure and attempts to control those who are considered “the other”. As long as we continue to use this way of thinking as a tool within our cultural development, we will never be able to get beyond it’s fallacies and will always revisit issues we tell ourselves have been “put to rest”. Those who are emboldened only by a false sense of inherit superiority will never, truly feel whole and will continue to act out, angrily, and with the same violence they inflict upon themselves internally, to those identified as the ‘other’ externally.

Living In Rural America, Seeking Inclusion

Emma,
IA

I am a white woman that just moved to a town in Iowa from Denver. I have really enjoyed the transition to a slower paced life, but I do miss the diversity of the city of Denver. I am aware that, sadly, I might not enjoy living in a more rural environment if I were of a minority group. I am looking to improve this lack of inclusivity and acceptance in my new community, and I hope I can support these efforts. I hope one day rural environments will be more equitable and inclusive and diversity in our community would only improve our quality of life.

School – Western Iowa Tech Community College

We’re all the same, but different.

Cynthia-81515Cynthia Parra,
Beaumont, TX.

Through my profession, I have been given the opportunity to work with university students from marginalized groups and I have become a local social justice advocate. What I have learned is that everyone one wants to be be love, accepted, and not judged. We as individuals, just go about looking for love and acceptance in different ways.

Acceptance, like art, comes in all colors.

Harold Rice,
Ann Arbor, MI.
On Location: University of Michigan

The University of Michigan has the 8th most international students in the country, which causes all of it’s students to be both accepting and interactive with cultures far different from their own. I came to the university from a town that was 99% white, and I had only one friend in high school who wasn’t Caucasian. This was not because I did not like other races; it was simply that I had never been exposed to differing cultures before. However, as soon as I got to Michigan, my first two friends, one of whom is now my best friend, were of Asian descent. In Ann Arbor I am not only shown many different races, but different cultures are everywhere in town. For example, there is food from every region of the world in about 4 square blocks. Also, because Ann Arbor is such a liberal place, it has given me a much more open mind set of why people’s behaviors are so different, and to be accepting of all people. I was also brought to this realization through a history course that I took this year. The class was about perceptions of maps and magic in Southeast Asian culture, and it showed me that some western ideas are just as far out there as the rest of the worlds, but because it is all I was exposed to, I thought it was normal behavior. All in all, all people have different beliefs because of their cultures, but the world would be a much better place if we would accept one another’s ideas rather than starting wars over them.

Discuss race fearlessly to unite people

Susana Gluck,
Minneapolis, MN.

There has to be open and sincere talk about race, our perceptions and preconceptions. Each group has to be able to hear the goods and bads we perceive about each other to find common and higher ground and an acceptance of our shared humanity. We can be critical but also loving.

Infertility Opens Your Eyes To Acceptance

Erika Barker
Mansfield, PA

Nothing about infertility is easy.. My husband and I want a family so much but so far we can’t have one. We would love to adopt, and race is not an issue. It makes us see there are deeper and more important things to think about than the color of the skin or the gender of the child. we just want a healthy baby to raise and be our family. no matter what deep love and a lifetime of support are waiting for any child that comes to us. regardless of race.

Education is the key to change

Autumn Segrest,
Highland Heights, KY.

As a white woman from suburban America, it can be hard to understand the struggles of the countless people who were not born into whiteness. Their experiences with racism and prejudice shape their identity as much as my privilege shapes mine. But through education, whether it be traditional schooling or sharing ideas, we can fight against the oppressors of our time and blossom into a world of acceptance.

We are more alike than unalike

Emily Patten,
Phoenix, AZ.

I grew up in a city with a substantial lack of racial diversity, yet my parents and teachers were able to instill values of acceptance and empathy. In my adult life, I’ve found that those two beliefs go pretty far in the way of understanding those who don’t look like me. As an elementary school teacher, my goal is to create a similar environment in the classroom: my kiddos know what Maya Angelou so beautifully stated in her poem, “Human Family”: ‘We are more alike, my friends, than we are unalike.’

I wish that Race meant EQUALITY.

14480764980181111517224Becky White Feather Riney,
Quincy, IL.

I am Native American and Caucasian. I hate knowing that there are people out there that simply because of the color of a person’s skin means (to them) they think someone Black (African American) or any race OTHER THAN WHITE is less than or undeserving of their acceptance, love or respect.

Black Skin? Conditional Acceptance In Society

Barry M.,
Canada.

Whether at work, in school, in a neighbourhood… especially a new one you moved to, as a Black person, especially as a Black man your acceptance is conditional. Your every mistake is taken as a reason you do not belong. When you do right no one notices. Anyone is allowed to make negative comments about you and assign socio-politcal meaning (almost always negative) to your clothes, hair, personality, foods you eat, how you walk etc. If you do not fit in the pigeon hole for “one of the good ones” then you are tossed in the other pile. You are labeled in some negative way and any negative feelings are automatically validated if you do anything seen as “wrong” whether or not others are allowed to get away with such things.

The “condition” of acceptance is what ever those with power in the given setting consider perfection.

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