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A Cajun Girl in her Kilt

Michelle Blanchard Ardillo,
Rockville, MD.

A Cajun girl in her kilt, that’s me. My dad was born and raised in southeast Louisiana, as was I, but my mother was born to Scottish immigrants who came to the US for economic and religious freedom. Upon marrying my father, however, she abandoned her Scottish heritage and adopted my father’s culture, cuisine and customs. For example, although she grew up with oatmeal every morning, she never had it again after she married my father, switching to grits, the hot cereal of Louisiana. It wasn’t until one of my mother’s first cousins starting visiting us from Glasgow, Scotland, (after her retirement and the passing of her own mother) did I come to understand my Scottish heritage. My image of myself shifted. Was I just my father’s daughter? Was my mother’s past inside of me as well?
When I first visited Scotland in 2000, I felt like I had “come home”. The highlands and the lowlands; the heather, the thistles, and bluebells; the shortbread and the never-ending cuppa tea; the heavy accents; they all tugged and tugged at my heart. Now, I consider myself a series of contradictions: Community Coffee in the morning and black tea in the evening, gumbo for lunch and scones in the afternoon, Zydeco to energize me and Mozart to relax me. With my very French maiden name and my fair, freckled skin, I remain a Cajun girl in her kilt.

Afraid for my Native American children.

Jarret Cummings,
Rockville, MD

My wife and children are members of the Cherokee Nation, but we have the good fortune to live in an area where they are unlikely to face discrimination. I worry about what may happen if my children ultimately go someplace where racial discrimination is still prevalent and how I should prepare them for that possibility. As a white male raised in Texas, I’ve never before had to think about racial discrimination as a personal concern as opposed to a social and political problem. Now, the thought of my wife, son, or daughter possibly having an encounter with the police has a chilling dimension to it that’s hard to process.

#EDUCAUSE2018

Embrace your race, don’t abuse it

Julia Hirsch,
Rockville, MD.

I have experienced white privilege several times during my life. I am grateful for everything that I have, but I need to periodically remind myself not to take these things for granted. Just because I have white privilege doesn’t mean I should discriminate, stereotype, or be prejudiced. This is also true for people of other races and they shouldn’t succumb to the stereotypes that society assigns them.

“You look white”, erases my father.

Janaki Kuruppu
Rockville, MD

As a child, my skin was darker and my hair frizzier, thanks to the genetic contribution of my father who was from Sri Lanka. As I’ve aged, I’ve come to resemble my white American mother more and more, Since my father died when I was 19, every time someone brings to my attention how little I look like I have Sri Lankan blood in me, I feel like I lose him a little more.

“White,” Turkish husband, speak 2+ languages.

PHYLLIS HULL AKTURK
Rockville, MD

I check “other” for race because we are all just homo sapiens. Although Father was from Norman English+Dutch and Mother from German+English stock (both born and raised in Denver, Colorado), I didn’t know I was a WASP until I got to the dorm, as a junior, at American University, where I got a BA in Anthropology. The Navy posted us to Napoli (where I picked up child’s Italian), Jacksonville, Florida (picked up a southern drawl), then back to Maryland, where, of four girls, only I had been born (in 1950). In public schools, I found American kids boring, always had a book about ancient civilizations in my bag, enjoyed choir and French class the most, and made friends with the rare international student; in community college, began to learn Spanish (and really fun dancing) from Latin-American students; at AU, started teaching ESOL in small schools; while editing ESOL books then working as an English-language secretary in the Turkish Embassy in DC, learned Portuguese from a Brasilian family and their friends; then met my future husband and, in 1979, moved to Turkey to marry, learned Turkish, taught English, and had two children. The Turkish Treasury posted us to Tokyo for three years, where we adults picked up basic Japanese and the kids became fluent in child’s Japanese, then to the World Bank/IMF in DC for four years in 1990. My husband then, wanting our kids to remain in US schools, took an IMF assignment to set up a modern treasury department in Azerbaijan, where he learned Russian (and I only learned some). We live in both the US and Turkey now. Last Christmas, I gave my husband participation in the Genographic Project, so we know his ancestry (my eldest sister also participated). My parents taught me to appreciate other people, cultures and languages as equals, and I continually to strive to carry that on.

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