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I will never really ‘get it’.

Me_and_Coreen (1)Celia Beasley,
Seattle, WA.

Being an upper-middle class white woman, I know I will never truly understand what it feels like to be a person of color in America. Despite my attempts to be aware of racism in this county through conversations, news stories, interviews, books, this website, etc, I know that I will never ‘get ‘ what it feels like to experience racism every single day of my life. Until I have been followed around in stores, pulled over by the cops for no reason, seen people clutching their belongings when I walk by, had people comment on how smart I sound for who I am, or fear for my son’s very life because of his skin color – I will never truly understand the cost of being a person of color in America. And by ‘cost’ I mean what it takes away from us – both as individuals and as a society.

I grew up in Oakland, California, in the only white family in an all-Black neighborhood. I lived in Madagascar for 2 years. But even those experiences of being a minority were nothing compared to the stress from racism that a person of color experiences every single day in America.

I know I am only responsible for my own actions, and for a short time, those of my young children. I can’t justify, explain or take responsibility for what other people say or how they act. I don’t know if there is anything I can do to change racism in America. I am fully aware of my White privilege, not only because of race but also because of class, and that I am very, very lucky. And I make sure my kids know that, too.

The picture above is of me, age 7, with my beloved neighbor growing up.

They won’t listen, they won’t believe

Merritt Campbell Burton,
Lewiston, ID

I considered myself color-blind until I learned that wasn’t helping. I was one of those hippy-dippy people who would say “we need to just move past it.” We don’t; not yet. We need to acknowledge and talk about it. Long conversations, uncomfortable conversations.

My first experience with racism was as a child. I can’t remember distinguishing between “races” before then. My sister and I were being teased at the playground by a couple of Black children, they were calling us “vanilla ice cream”. Finally, I said “oh yeah, well then you’re chocolate ice cream!” Their mother overheard me and was very angry, even more so when she discovered how it all started.

Now, I am 43 years old. I’ve returned to college and am taking Cultural Anthropology and learning even more. I honestly didn’t know that there are no genetic differences between “races” and that the term itself is completely inaccurate. I used to think Black people were genetically more athletic, for example.
I get so frustrated trying to communicate with other white people on the subject. They won’t listen, they won’t believe. They can watch a video of an unarmed Black man being killed by police and somehow justify it in their minds. They cannot, or willfully will not see the advantages that our whiteness has given us in our lifetimes; the doors that do not shut in our faces.

Currently, we’re on the chapters on racism and ethnicity in my Anthropology class and I’m spending a lot of time with my heart wide open and aching as I learn more about just how much of an illusion “race” is, considering how ingrained into our society it is.
2018 and we still can’t hold a real national conversation on racism. Too many people pretend it doesn’t exist anymore.

The Human Race; The Forgotten Race.

elyzabeth-inez-smithElyzabeth Inez Smith,
Granbury, TX.

No matter what history has come to discover. No matter what the future has to uncover. No matter what excuses people can come up with in order to justify the racial lines man has created. In the end we ALL are the same race. The only race. The ever colorful and diverse race. The Human Race. Until we can come together as the Human Race and recognize that we are all a part of it, we will never live in a world without hate fueled by the hate we ourselves have created.

You’re the blue-eyed guest of honor

Haley Cantin,
Sanger, CA.

I am white american female and I always get “because of your eyes”. When someone compliments me and says I’m pretty I often ask why.. and most responses I get are “because of your eyes”. But everyone has eyes? Am I not pretty becuase of anything else? Do my eyes define me? Is that all what people see in me? Don’t get me wrong I absolutly love it when people compliment my eye color and say its pretty, but it becomes a different level when people see me a certain way because of my eyes, I would still be the same person if I had brown eyes, its just a color. I chose the 6 words “you’re the blue-eyed guest of honor” because every single time i visit my boyfriends house his parents are always doing things for me and going out of their way to make things better or more comfortable for me, but they don’t do the same things for thier other daughter-in-laws and they always justify by saying I’m the blue-eyed guest of honor. So basically because I’m white and have blue eyes they’re treating me in a different manner. I don’t understand this. Socially people create these standards for different races becauase of appearence, and it creating this level of awkwardness between different appearences. Theres more to me then my eyes, I have a personality, get to know me, theres more to me then my eyes, I have life problems just like everyone else, theres more to me then my eyes, I’m me… we’re all human and no matter what color anything is, we’re equal. We shouldnt assume or socially create these boundaries between races. My name is Haley, not blue-eyed guest of honor. Get to know me.

I’m an Eastern European Ashkenazic Jew

Anonymous,
Philadelphia, PA .

For a long time, I have known that the concept of “race” is a false way to identify or classify human beings. Race is not a biological reality. In the 19th century, in Europe, the concept of ranking people by color was used to justify conquest and slavery. The attachment of slavery to color was born. Prior to that, empires did enslave their conquered peoples but did not attach ideas of superiority based on color to them. Those ideas developed with European colonization and imperialism. European “race” theorists even applied these ideas to different (white) nations and groups within Europe (read “The History of White People” by Nell Irwin Painter.)

Several years ago, I decided I would never again say I was Caucasian again. My ancestors are not from the Caucasian mountains. (Good article in Wikipedia on how Europeans got to be called Caucasian, probably by Professor Painter.) My grandparents were immigrants – Jews who came to the U.S. from Eastern Europe – Russia, Poland, Hungary, and Romania – in the late 19th/early 20th century. They were fleeing persecution and poverty. I decided when I had to state my “race” (such as when donating blood) I would state that I was an Eastern European Ashkenazic Jew, which is what my grandparents were. But I really wasn’t sure what Ashkenazic meant, so I googled it. To my surprise, I found a lot of interesting genetic information. I learned about the National Geographic Human Genome project which uses DNA to trace the migration of people from Africa (about 80,000 years ago?) and to see how they radiated out to different parts of the world. More than 99% of human DNA is the same. The tiny fraction that is different is what causes differences in different populations. The differences arose as humans walked out of Mother Africa and settled in different regions. If they were in isolated areas, they eventually became a gene pool and shared certain characteristics that other groups did not share. Some groups formed a gene pool because social customs forbade marrying out of the group. However, in spite of isolation, there is still more genetic variation within any one group than between different groups. But some individuals or groups never settled – because of wanderlust, exploration, migration, trade, war – and shared their genes with other populations all over the world.

I did get my DNA tested. I got my Mitochondrial DNA tested in 2010, and my autosomal DNA tested in 2016. I’m not a geneticist, or a biologist, and I had to learn lots of new vocabulary and concepts to understand what it meant. It’s nice to know, and it’s anthropology which is fascinating, but that’s it.

Please stop trying to justify racism.

Harper Grey,
Philadelphia, PA

I see too many white people saying being white makes them a scapegoat, and complaining that everyone calls them racist “just for speaking the truth”… all while publicly espousing racist views & white-supremacist opinions that are as far from “truth” as it gets. Almost without exception, these are white conservatives.

I’m white, and nobody has ever called me a racist. If you’re finding that word to be used toward you on a regular basis, maybe you should seriously consider your behaviour. If you use discriminatory language, make public internet posts promoting racial stereotypes, or belong to groups that are openly white supremacist, then perhaps *that might be what’s making others think you’re racist.*

Stop being intellectually lazy. Stop blaming everything on minorities & “liberals.” Take a look at your own actions. Take responsibility for your deeds & words. Act like a functioning member of society, or you just might be left out of it.

Racism exists because no one’s evil

Jim Solomita,
Portland, OR.

Enslavement is one of the most evil things a human can do to another. However, no one likes to think of themselves as evil. Therefore, the slave owners needed a way to justify what they were doing. Their solution was to consider Africans as less-than humans – tantamount to animals. Then came Darwin to scientifically “prove” that Blacks must not be as ‘fit’ as Whites if they could be enslaved. This propaganda was spread for and was so successful that the belief persists to this day.

We invent race to justify intolerance

Joshua
San Antonio, TX

We are all one race and have only minor different biological features. Do you really believe that is the driving force behind our discrimination and stereotypical caricaturizations of each other? If we were all perfectly homogenized and mixed race, would will still discrimination against each other based on class, money, or privilege? To me it is a sign that we as a species, when ignorant or uneducated, are just intolerant of that which we do not understand or that which is different. Color is just a convenient and easy point to coalesce upon. Socioeconomic, cultural, and historical differences are a bit harder to hate because they requires a bit of education to understand. Color is easy and requires only a set of fully functioning eyes and an impressionable, naïve brain.

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