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2042 can not come fast enough.

NHJ-at-overpriced-Turkish-Coffee-hotel-in-Diyarbakir-TurkeyNathan Henderson-James,
Oakland, CA.

6 words is obviously limiting. However, my 6 reflect my own experience growing up as one of the few white kids in my local public schools. It was an education being constantly in the minority (in school, outside of those walls, I was comfortably back in a white affluent world) and one that more people with white skin privilege need to go through. It breed empathy, understanding, and a full 360 degree view of people from outside your own background. You get the good, the bad, and the ugly. It made me better at dealing with difference and better at interrogating my own prejudices, internalized racism, and privilege. It wasn’t sufficient to make me struggle for racial justice, but it was, for me, a necessary component for striding that path. And that’s why I picked my 6 words. Because people with white skin privilege need to experience being the only one more often. It won’t be sufficient to build the political will to change the institutional racism in our various national systems and culture, but it is necessary to help build the shared experience necessary to have an honest conversation about getting there.

Oh, do you speak English? Si.

17Loreina Gonzalez,
Edwardsville, KS.

Imagine not being able to have a proper conversation with anyone, because they all assume you do not speak English. They approach you at your job because they need help finding something but before they even ask their question, they ask if you speak English. They see you and a Caucasian cashier and since they’re not Latino/a they go to the other registrar only because they feel they wont be able to communicate with you. Wrong. We are all capable of understanding.

Pain anger confusion impatience exhaustion pride

Jua Fluellen,
Washington, DC.

I would like for more people to deconstruct the role race places in the way they are perceived and responded to within their immediate environment. I would like for more people to develop the skills of conversing about race across difference in a way that can deepen our understanding of what racism is and how it actually functions. This way, more of us can consciously counter racism as a system.

Contrived for power, superiority, riches – dehumanizing.

Carol Wenger,
New Holland, PA.

As a white woman, I’ve been learning, relating, and waking up to an understanding that I’ve been complacent in my ignorance of white privilege. I seek transformation in repentance,forgiveness, and relationship building. My current questions are: what else don’t I know? What else should I do? Is forgiveness possible? Is healing and wholeness possible? How can I be part of the healing rather than part of the problem?

Hispanic and I only speak English

marloMarlo Torres,
Riverside, CA.

I am Puerto Rican and I have always grown up with the question of; You’re Hispanic, why don’t you speak Spanish? At first it was always something that I just laughed off and my usual response was I don’t know or my parents never taught me. As I grew older and even now, it’s a question that bothers me. I would mostly be asked that question at work. I think what bothers me the most about that question is the look people give me when they ask that question, as if I am a disgrace to my culture because I do not speak Spanish. I remember I used to get angry and ask my Mother why she never taught any of her five children Spanish. I didn’t understand at first because both my parents spoke Spanish very well, however as I got older I began to understand the struggles my mom went through as a single parent raising five children and I knew it was not an easy task for her. I hope that in the future as our country continues to develop more diversity and more understanding of different races and cultures, we can also learn to understand that there are many Hispanic cultures that do not speak Spanish.

See my humanity first, race second.

Sylvia Stancil,
Wayne State,
MI

While I will concede that these mere six words may represent an oversimplification to addressing extremely complex issues, recognizing the humanity first in anyone is a good foundation upon which to build open and honest dialogue. There is a thread of commonality that should serve to bind us provided one recognizes the importance of each thread to the tapestry of humankind. Having traveled to six continents and meeting people from various cultures has underscored for me that we are by far more alike than we are different. Driven most likely by self-interest and fear, orchestrators of hate and ignorance continue to sow the seeds of divisiveness. In doing so, where bridges of understanding may exist, they are damaged and/or destroyed. It is up to all of us to continue to build stronger bridges that can withstand the oppressive weight of racism.

Not a Race, Still a Human

B5buNnpIIAAe_toCameron Warren,
Downingtown, PA.

I’m a very Irish child, and being proud of that has always been hard due to the fact I have red hair and freckles. While most say, “oh but you’re white, whats the problem” the problem is just that. I have been bullied and teased almost my whole life and not being able to fight it because your own race degrades you, but if I were to say not to be mean to “gingers” they say you’re not a race, sometimes they say not people at all, and to just deal with it. I’m stuck at a cross roads where many sub-groups have found themselves, where they cannot find comfort in their own but can’t seek understanding of those who have it “worse”.

Loving me = easier to love you

Makeda Zulu-Gillespie,
Minnepolis, MN.

“The balance in trying to give your children an open road to follow their dreams and making sure they recognize the dangers signs is HARD. It is a complex conversation already then add the dynamics of faith!

I see progress and hope beyond my understanding AND I see the reinforcement institutionalized systems that kill humans physically, mentally and spiritually daily without apology – Troy Davis, Tycel Nelson, Edger Hoults.”

Accepting. Understanding. Empathy. Listening. Reflecting. Loving.

10369214_10152514688658746_5028401895886614226_nRyan Stiemsma,
Fond du Lac, WI.

The 50th anniversary of the Selma March is today. These are just some words I thought of as I thought of this event. We’ve come a long way as a country but yet we have a long way to go.

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